Bonez899 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Actually have a question today!How should one proceed if they are unsure of a relationship status? Highschool is the context if it matters. http://forum.tip.it/topic/325514-bonez899s-journey-to-an-eventual-max/ My blog of progress on Runescape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Actually have a question today!How should one proceed if they are unsure of a relationship status? Highschool is the context if it matters."Yo _____, you dating _____ or what? Whats the deal with that?" Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boris5000 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Actually have a question today! How should one proceed if they are unsure of a relationship status? Highschool is the context if it matters. "Yo _____, you dating _____ or what? Whats the deal with that?" 'ayyyyyy gurlll. Is u in a consensual arrangement with ____? Luck be a Lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Low Levelled Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Also, how did you start the initial conversation yesterday? And when is he moving back to Alabama? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonez899 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Actually have a question today!How should one proceed if they are unsure of a relationship status? Highschool is the context if it matters."Yo _____, you dating _____ or what? Whats the deal with that?" More in the sense of not sure if they are in one. http://forum.tip.it/topic/325514-bonez899s-journey-to-an-eventual-max/ My blog of progress on Runescape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Low Levelled Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Well, do you have a reason to think he/she is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boris5000 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Actually have a question today! How should one proceed if they are unsure of a relationship status? Highschool is the context if it matters. "Yo _____, you dating _____ or what? Whats the deal with that?" More in the sense of not sure if they are in one. Well you have 2 choices, assume they aren't in a relationship and go balls deep. Or Pretend they are in a relationship and have the deep regret for when they aren't in one and you stay awake at night considering that you had a chance but you decided not to act on it/ respect that they are in a relationship. IMO you have very little to lose by assuming the former. 1 Luck be a Lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 "Are you single?" If they say no, just be like "alright have a good day then" If they say yes, say "would you like to get coffee with me tomorrow?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammako Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Nah, you are misunderstanding me, Low; I met him online. I'm not really comfortable with asking someone about their relationship status, because that's fairly personal information, and I think a lot of people would feel offended if somebody asked personal questions like that right off the bat. If I ask him if he's single, it's pretty much guaranteed he would know why I ask. Don't want him to feel like I'm going too fast... give it enough time to let the both of us know more about each other, you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonez899 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 "Are you single?" If they say no, just be like "alright have a good day then" If they say yes, say "would you like to get coffee with me tomorrow?"Ok, although I think it would be more fun to awkwardly shuffle off with your head hanging, having said nothing, if they say no. Honestly though, I guess I just overthink everything. http://forum.tip.it/topic/325514-bonez899s-journey-to-an-eventual-max/ My blog of progress on Runescape. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 "Are you single?" If they say no, just be like "alright have a good day then" If they say yes, say "would you like to get coffee with me tomorrow?"Ok, although I think it would be more fun to awkwardly shuffle off with your head hanging, having said nothing, if they say no. Honestly though, I guess I just overthink everything. Everyone does. You won't stop overthinking it until you've done it a bunch of times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Nah, you are misunderstanding me, Low; I met him online.I'm not really comfortable with asking someone about their relationship status, because that's fairly personal information, and I think a lot of people would feel offended if somebody asked personal questions like that right off the bat.If I ask him if he's single, it's pretty much guaranteed he would know why I ask. Don't want him to feel like I'm going too fast... give it enough time to let the both of us know more about each other, you know.Heaven forbid people know how you feel Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammako Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I'm not sure what you mean by that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Who gives a shit if someone who lives in another [bleep]ing country knows that you like him? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ammako Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 I see, I guess you guys aren't here to help me then. Forget I asked anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hedgehog Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Just tell him how you feel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Low Levelled Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 @ammako Do you feel you've been in contact long enough that you'd be comfortable with him asking you the same question? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Is he hot??? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obfuscator Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 I see, I guess you guys aren't here to help me then. Forget I asked anything. I think the point people are trying to make is that it's easy to over-analyze these things. Often times the simple method is the best. "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Perhaps my point was missed in my overly concise response. But to be able to understand what youre asking us for would allow me to be of more help. I jave no context for your situation. The answer to "when is it appropriate to tell someone i like them in a crush kind of way" is a conditional answer. Universally id say the best answer to this question is "ASAP" . But that is only entirely absolutely true if no other details are given. What is your relation to this person? How did you meet? How long ago? What is your interaction commonly like? How old are you and the other party? What culture do you love amongst? Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
highlanders Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 Nah, you are misunderstanding me, Low; I met him online.I'm not really comfortable with asking someone about their relationship status, because that's fairly personal information, and I think a lot of people would feel offended if somebody asked personal questions like that right off the bat.If I ask him if he's single, it's pretty much guaranteed he would know why I ask. Don't want him to feel like I'm going too fast... give it enough time to let the both of us know more about each other, you know. Men don't understand subtle hints. Tell him how you feel in the plainest words possible. I'd be shocked if he got offended that you asked his relationship status. "How dare you LIKE ME?!" Hell most guys get flattered when gay men hit on them, I think you're in the clear. The guy might not even understand that you like him from your asking his relationship status. In fact, it's a high possibility. Subtlety doesn't work. 2480+ total Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estonian dude Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 You have no idea, how oblivious I have been all this time about all that.Just [bleep]ing ask. Or, like a Nike commercial, JUST DO IT! So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saradomin_Mage Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 yeah seriously just telling us things straight helps a ton, none of this subtle hint dropping/mind games bullshit pls and ty In real life MMO you don't get 99 smithing by making endless bronze daggers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boris5000 Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 If all else fails 3 Luck be a Lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Observer Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 I see, I guess you guys aren't here to help me then. Forget I asked anything. How did you meet? If you met off of a dating website, then clearly the intention is already known. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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