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You need better pics then

I have this issue where I can't add anymore pictures or change any of mine (on tinder). Sucks to be me, huh. I get a fair few matches with my current set of pictures - but I have to rely on my profile description...

 

I have tried re-installing tinder - reactivating the permissions through Facebook e.t.c


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You need better pics then

I have this issue where I can't add anymore pictures or change any of mine (on tinder). Sucks to be me, huh. I get a fair few matches with my current set of pictures - but I have to rely on my profile description...

 

I have tried re-installing tinder - reactivating the permissions through Facebook e.t.c

I think your Facebook pictures have to be set to public in order for them to be usable on Tinder. If they're set to friends-only or something, Tinder won't recognize them.

 

Also make sure you're looking in the correct location. One of my Tinder pics is an older pic that I posted on my timeline a while back so it's under my "timeline photos" Facebook album


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I tried to use tinder just for curiosity's sake, but it wanted me to log in to facebook (I don't have facebook), so i said f that


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Tinder caches the images after you upload them too, so you can put an image on facebook, set it as a picture on tinder, then delete it on facebook

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You need better pics then

I have this issue where I can't add anymore pictures or change any of mine (on tinder). Sucks to be me, huh. I get a fair few matches with my current set of pictures - but I have to rely on my profile description...

 

I have tried re-installing tinder - reactivating the permissions through Facebook e.t.c

I think your Facebook pictures have to be set to public in order for them to be usable on Tinder. If they're set to friends-only or something, Tinder won't recognize them.

 

Also make sure you're looking in the correct location. One of my Tinder pics is an older pic that I posted on my timeline a while back so it's under my "timeline photos" Facebook album

 

 

This is false. I have an album of photos I use for tinder but not facebook set so that only I can see it and it works fine.

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Ugh, I got the "We need to talk" message...

 

I'm in a bit of a pickle :D


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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Thats a strong conclusion to jump to. Maybe she accepted a job in another country or something


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I know that I did something wrong. And seriously wrong...

 

I hope that I can speak myself clear, but it might get hard...

 

I did get a good troll out of it, but it might cost me dearly.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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I know that I did something wrong. And seriously wrong...

 

I hope that I can speak myself clear, but it might get hard...

 

I did get a good troll out of it, but it might cost me dearly.

Do I really want to know the details. You speak as if you want to talk about it... :P


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Yeh it seems each time I read troll in a sentence, I get a little dumber.

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Hung out with a girl from Tinder. She said in her bio that she had a boyfriend, and I knew that. She just moved here from the east coast and wanted to find some new friends. She seemed like a really cool person and we had a lot of stuff in common, like music taste and stuff. She really wanted to hang out so we did. She talked about sex A LOT, like everything from past relationships to porn she watches, and kept saying how she missed having sex so much (her boyfriend is back on the east coast) and stuff like that.

 

So basically I'm trying to say that I think she wanted to have sex with me. She seems really clingy and needy, which I kind of like a little bit in girls to a certain degree, but she honestly seems a little bit crazy. Like she already wanted to hang out again tomorrow. She's just really exhausting to be around, like extroverted to the highest degree and it sucks the energy out of me. 

 

Basically I don't know what to do here. Like I wouldn't mind being friends with her but she's a lil crazy and I don't really want to be the person she cheats on her long-distance boyfriend with (she's not attractive enough to be worth it lollll). But I feel bad ignoring her. ehhhh


 

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If she doesn't fit in with your other friends is not really worth it


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Quit hanging out with her if you aren't planning on pursuing a sexual relationship with her

 

Unless your short on friends and plan on keeping her around with the full intention of never having sex with her even if she insists

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Oh, plot twist:

A pretty good friend of mine has also fallen for that same girl that I had/have (dunno what we gonna talk tomorrow) a thing with.

I don't know if he knows anything about what we did.

 

Life like in a South-American soap opera.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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I would find the drama easier to follow if there were named characters and concrete facts. Perhaps give them fake names, like Rodrigo and Elvira, to hide their identities. But at the moment it's too vague - I'm not really following the story. 

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"Imagine yourself surrounded by the most horrible cripples and maniacs it is possible to conceive, and you may understand a little of my feelings with these grotesque caricatures of humanity about me."

- H.G. Wells, The Island of Doctor Moreau

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Quit hanging out with her if you aren't planning on pursuing a sexual relationship with her

Unless your short on friends and plan on keeping her around with the full intention of never having sex with her even if she insists

Idk I think they should have sex

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Ha ha my grandma's called Elvira. 

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"Imagine yourself surrounded by the most horrible cripples and maniacs it is possible to conceive, and you may understand a little of my feelings with these grotesque caricatures of humanity about me."

- H.G. Wells, The Island of Doctor Moreau

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I actually know a woman named Elviira.

 

Well, what is here to explain? I like a girl, have gone out with her a few times, have stayed the night at her place and she has at mine and well, think further.

Now, she doesn't want anyone to know about us. And as far as I know, there is only one guy for certain who knows about us and he lives in the UK, but saw us on NYE.

The problem is, I screwed up a bit by misusing her trust a bit.

In doing so, I learned that a good mate of mine (not the one who lives in UK) has also developed quite a crush on her. I don't know what he knows about me and that girl.

Now she is pissed at me for being a douchebag and we have the "we need to talk" conversation tomorrow.

 

I have no idea what to expect.

 

But to be honest, she is kinda out of my league.


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So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends.

 

RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.

Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.

Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.

I strike out every other week.

Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.

Randox pretty much stays rational.

Etc, etc

 

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But the whole dramatic linchpin is still vague: how did you abuse her trust? Did you betray her in some way or was it to do with her trust fund? We must know why Elvira is so upset. And do you worry your friend Rodrigo might steal her away?

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"Imagine yourself surrounded by the most horrible cripples and maniacs it is possible to conceive, and you may understand a little of my feelings with these grotesque caricatures of humanity about me."

- H.G. Wells, The Island of Doctor Moreau

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yeah it's just a weird scenario for me because on paper she's everything I'd want in a friend or partner. same taste in obscure music, art, hobbies, stuff like that. but she's so hypersexual that it makes me uncomfortable. like I have absolutely no problem with sex or talking about it, but within like an hour of meeting her she was telling me about how she gives the best [bleep]s, has no gag reflex, sucked the dick of some 27 year old high school teacher, and a lot more. so it's weird to be around someone who is so bizarrely open about her sex life but has a long distance boyfriend. i don't want to be the bad guy and have her cheat on him with me, but if she just shut the [bleep] up about sex for once then she has potential for being a good friend. whatever. it's not really that big of a deal for me either way because I'm not all that physically attracted to her, so we'll probably just drift away. it'd be easier if she didn't text and snapchat me all the time, but oh well I guess.


 

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I've dated girls like that. They're often not exaggerating.

 

I dont see you hanging out with her and not having sex with her somewhere down the line. But at least it'll be fun. (And her boyfriend is either really used to being cheated on, is insanely insecure, insanely oversecure, or a complete moron)


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Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos.

 

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Origin: Brand_New_iPwn

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