I Think I Have a Bully

[deathdrow]

Is everyone at school a homophobe? I mean, comments like, [bleep], Queer, Gay.

 

 

 

So what? Really... Does it matter if you are?

 

 

 

Apparently everybody must be.

 

My whole school is. I hate my school.

[Robert_de_Sable]

Is everyone at school a homophobe? I mean, comments like, [bleep], Queer, Gay.

 

 

 

So what? Really... Does it matter if you are?

 

 

 

Apparently everybody must be.

 

In total honesty, I think that the definition of "gay" should be amended to include "stupid."

 

By no means am I saying homosexuals are stupid, but I am saying that instead of trying to change the way people talk, just accept it. Same mentality homosexuals use for heterosexuals, why not have it this way?

[Guest]

Just say whatever he says to you right back at you. And I mean EXACTLY what he says. If he says "You stupid gay [bleep]", then call him a " stupid gay [bleep]". Annoyance is the best way to go. Transforming what he says into your mom jokes is also annoying. If all else fails, use the V word.

 

 

 

Ventroquilsm. violence!

[abbydog95]

3 options i see:

 

 

 

#1- ignore him, he'll get bored.

 

 

 

#2- Jump his sorry [wagon] :twisted: (probaly waht id do tbh)

 

 

 

#3- find some hot chick and make out with her infront of him (Not very serious answer lol)

[doomy]

Start thinking of a good comeback.

[iLootChests]

lol, you're describing what school is like for me every day, but with multiple people.

the sad thing in my school is that there have been many occasions that the teachers and police officers in my school wont let me leave becasue i had over half the school outside waitin to beat the (wagon) out of me and not only them but the highschool is right across the street so i had many people from there waitin at the same time, then a week later someone chased me with a knife, so i hope school never gets this dangerous for you, but the point is that my problem started in the same way yours did someone said something that isnt true at all, they started saying that i hated porta ricans (think i spelt it wrong) but this i do not get as i have porta rican siblings

Punch him in the mouth.

 

violence doesn't solve anything.

 

just observe him' date=' and figure out what type of a person he is, then insult him in ways that will make him feel terrible, and destroy him psychologically.[/quote'] this is very good advice in a way dont say something that will make you want to attack you and honestly if this gets to out of hand then plz do something in a way that it will help you, you might not know right now but you most likely soon will, but if it does come to a point make sure you got friends that will be with you no matter what

If he does it again, punch him. If his friends really think you're gay, and they see him get his [wagon] kicked by a "gay, effeminate" guy, he'll be the laughing stock.

never hit him unless he is hitting you, but if it is in school and your worried about getting in trpuble then after its done laugh when he leaves, and if your the kind of person who cries a little hint that my friends told me is close your eyes and think of a beat to a song, and last bit of advice always claim that he cheap shoted you or if you do cry say he hit you in the eye ( this one dosnt work if he only hits you once and its clearly not in the eye

[iLootChests]

Start thinking of a good comeback.

when you do this get in his mind in a way that will make him think and another tip is if you skate and you get jumped dont hit them in the face, also if your out of school and he hits you a good trick is if he's running at you turn around sharply and crack him in the face because even if you cant hit that good your force + his running force = alot more powerful punch

 

 

 

i hope i was able to help :)

[ThurinEthir]

Is everyone at school a homophobe? I mean, comments like, [bleep], Queer, Gay.

 

 

 

So what? Really... Does it matter if you are?

 

 

 

Apparently everybody must be.

 

Not in Massachusetts. :thumbup:

 

 

 

Really though, that's not exactly bullying. Though just about anything can be called sexual harassment or something like that nowadays.

 

Play along, punch him, eat him, sit on him (???), whatever.

 

I would go with playing along. I've actually convinced a friend of mine that I'm gay. (No, I'm not. I'm straight. :? )

[Smapla]

my favorite, and default response to anything, is the extremely blank and uncomfortably long-lasting stare. just stare at them for as long as they are taunting you, as if you're paying complete attention but don't comprehend any of their insults. try to remain as motionless as possible.

 

 

 

side effects : dry eyes, limbs may fall asleep (if they can continue for sufficiently long periods of time), social ostricism

 

 

 

 

 

fairly effective. whenever they aren't communicating directly with you, ignore them, but treat them neutrally. for instance, if they ask you to move your seat so they can get by, do it just like you would for anyone else. hand them the scissors if they ask for them.

[l0l0lpur34]

all the people saying to use violence - grow up. also it's very rare that anyone can "beat anyone to a pulp" without any sort of injuries themself. violence would solve absolutely nothing

 

 

 

ignore all the childish people's advice (which they probably wouldn't follow themself in the same situation) and just ignore them.

[ElkNight]

What an [wagon]. Just ignore him.

 

Basically this. Try and ignore him as best you can. If you cant, then TRY HARDER.

[Chained_life]

Idc what you do about him insulting you. Stand up for yourself if he attacks you physically.

 

 

 

Good god, Violence doesn't solve anything? Proves we're becoming a world of cowards too afraid to stand up for ourselves so we "ignore them" throughout high school and once we get to college we can drown it all out with drugs :lol: Pathetic. Be a man. I've been set straight by people who I mistakenly messed with. I've been a bully and the bullied. It all ended in violence. In the end we all were left each other alone. if you can't fight go take some classes and kick his [wagon], most likely he will leave you alone and hopefully his pride will be too hurt to mess with anyone else. And like I said before, ONLY IF HE ATTACKS YOU. Don't start something violent. You will deal with bullies in life, all kinds of them. Ignoring your bullies or trying to mess with their "feelings" won't always help you, you need to know how to fight, mentally and physically. Of course as you get older and more mature the violence will just look ridiculous.

 

 

 

And yeah, I agree with Krank, you're hardly being bullied.

[Perakp]

Pray for him and turn the other cheek.

[Chained_life]

Pray for him and turn the other cheek.

 

 

 

 

 

You can also take this route. Usually what I did until the bully got physical.

[Wongtong]

If I were in the same situation as you I would join in with the 'joke' and do offensive hand gestures mocking a certain action to freak him out or try to squeeze his imaginary boobs.

 

 

 

But since you're not an asian girl, maybe it's different....a lot different.

 

 

 

I personally wouldn't ignore, because it just keeps happening if you ignore it.

 

 

 

Remember to never overreact (i.e 'IT WAS A [bleep]ING MISUNDERSTANDING OKAY!?!?! JEEZ I'M NOT GAY!!!!').

[dsavi]

^ Yeah that's about the worst thing you could do :lol:

[sohkmj1]

Call him babes and dear in front of his friends, assuming he has any. Narrow minded individuals like these often don't have many friends, unless of course he belongs to a gay hating organization.

[Happysniff]

Harden the [bleep] up and insult him back or something, or express that you're the more dominant man and hit him. Most of you are trash talking this homo-hater but you're practically doing the same as he is, and over the internet.

 

 

 

I say go along with it. Mind rape him for a little while. Like actually walk up to him when he's with his group of friends and say "Love you!" Then blow his a kiss.

 

 

 

That is the most [developmentally delayed]ed advice I've ever heard. Are you [bleep]ing serious? Telling him to act more gay will make the 'bullying' a lot worse.

 

 

 

 

just observe him, and figure out what type of a person he is, then insult him in ways that will make him feel terrible, and destroy him psychologically.

 

 

 

Best advice in this entire damn thread. Also good to stalk on Myspace and Facebook and photoshop his pics with ejaculating [roosters], and post them all over school and even photoshop his face onto gay porn pics like in that South Park episode. You may think I'm trying to be funny, but this is full serious. This is the best thing you can do, assuming this 'bullying' continues. You can bring him down in ways you can't imagine. Imagine how good it would feel to see him crying on the ground when everyone laughs at him. See him squirm as all the jocks beat the crap out of him. He'll be the new homo kid, and you'll be relinquished of that title. Are you even registering this? You should take all I'm writing into full consideration.

[AceBeam]

I come from a city loaded with [wagon] and idiots. I had a few bullies on me. It's fairly simple to get rid of them. Biggest mistake I've made was starting a fight with a kick to the chest... (he was short, but buff). All my muscle is in my legs, hell, I've kicked holes in walls. Chest kicks are for when your bully is getting somewhat tired and injured. If you do start fighting, allow him to make the first move. Next day, the bully robbed me of a dollar ( :P ) at the pop machine near the lunch room. I asked him "what?" so he called me a girl and punched me in the gut. Luckily, I hardened my gut at that moment, and the punch came off as nothing but a congratulatory slap, so i just walked off with my 7-Up and laughed. He was later called to the office because there is a camera in front of the machine, and the Staff saw him punch me. A few moments later, he walked by me, walked across the room, remembered he saw me, walked back across the room, and walked by me again but doing that thing where bullies bump into you with there shoulder. Saw him a few weeks later, but that was the last of it. Never saw him again :P

 

 

 

Oh... Crap. That wasn't real helpful, was it...

 

...I guess...

 

 

 

Well, actually... wait... no...

[Wongtong]

I say go along with it. Mind rape him for a little while. Like actually walk up to him when he's with his group of friends and say "Love you!" Then blow his a kiss.

 

 

 

That is the most [developmentally delayed] advice I've ever heard. Are you [bleep] serious? Telling him to act more gay will make the 'bullying' a lot worse.

 

Actually no, it's not that bad. When I've used that method myself (variation), they could tell that I was taking the piss out of them.

[Range_This11]

Stand up to him and don't just take it like a wuss.

 

 

 

If you don't have the gumption to stand up for yourself, then you don't deserve to complain about being bullied.

[thrash-boy]

Hopefully i have some good advice because ive been through it all before

 

 

 

-if it continues, ignore it for a week.

 

-This is by far the most important part. if it doesn't stop, dont let it get to you, and make sure he knows that its not getting to you. If you cant help it getting to you, do something else or whatever it takes.

 

-Remember that this person is a weak, attention seeking individual, and you are by far a much better person than him. People only bully because they have problems of their own, and it makes them feel strong for some time. Think of him like dirt, and treat him like dirt (within reason of course).

 

 

 

-If he gets physical with you, defend yourself but dont go to the effort of getting in trouble over someone as low as him.

 

-Pretend his not there, even if he is dont care one bit. remember, you dont care what a person like this thinks of you, they can think anything for all you care. what someone so low thinks means nothing to anyone.

 

-If you get a good opportunity (dont fall to his lame level), stand up for yourself. (when he calls you gay, and you know his brother is gay for a fact, point it out. Also point out his logic, gayness is a genetic disorder in his mind. If his brother is gay then he must be carrying the gay gene).

 

-Continue your life as normal

 

 

 

 

 

You will find a bully goes through a cycle (in my experience they have anyway):

 

1. Somethings happened in the bullys life and they arnt very emotionally stable. Suddenly they become aware that your a vulnerable target (what happened to you at lunch would have made him aware), and they turn their bully guns toward you.

 

 

 

2. For a while (anywhere from a few days to a month), the bully starts firing an insult whenever they have a good chance. They feel good about themselves, and people around may think some of the insults are funny, which makes them feel even better. Its important to them at this stage that you are upset at their bullying

 

 

 

3. The bully starts to lose control, they are addicted the the buzz of bullying and need more fixes. They start firing off insults at every opportunity, as well as some extremely lame and low attempts at bullying to try for a bigger buzz. your not quite as annoyed at them by now (your used to it), so they have to do it more.

 

 

 

4. The bully gets to their lowest point. whenever they even look at you they might have a go at getting a fix. they will try bully you in extremely low, lame and hopeless ways. you've learnt well to ignore them now, and they arnt getting their fix of seeing you down. they have become very desperate.

 

Other people around them will most likely have a go at them when they attempt a lame insult, which makes them even lower.

 

By this stage you can probably stare them in the eye with confidence, and they will become agitated and may look away (after a very low insult toward you of course).

 

 

 

5. This is when they will either get violent, find a new target, the problem in their life will be resolved, or they will quit school with severe depression (in a very severe case). The problems over, although it probably ended for you ages ago when you worked out how to ignore them properly. They are now just someone on your list of morons you wouldn't do anything to help.

 

 

 

As you can see, the stage they get to depends on your ability to live on even with their bullying (how well you can ignore them, what they have to go to to get at you). As your tollerance goes up, their self estine and reputation goes down. The quicker you ignore it properly, and stop it getting at you, the quicker it will end. You can ignore it tomorrow and it will be over in 3 days, or you can let it get to you for the next 4 months and it will last for 5 or 6.

 

 

 

Teachers will tell you you must tell someone (a teacher, parent, friend etc), but you dont need too unless you cant stop it getting at you. If your dealing with it, no need to bring someone else in. Most of the time friends will work it out themselves anyway.

[EdgedThesis]

"If I was gay, your dead, repeatedly violated body would have been found amongst the other pieces of organic garbage behind the school dumpster by now. Though, I could always arrange the murder without the rape."

[Boris5000]

Kiss him, touch his [privates], spank his [wagon]... Make him uncomfortable and show him that you aren't bothered...

[RayOxide]

Punch him in the mouth.

 

violence doesn't solve anything.

 

just observe him, and figure out what type of a person he is, then insult him in ways that will make him feel terrible, and destroy him psychologically.

 

 

 

You serious?!

 

 

 

Violence is like the only logical answer in a schoolyard.

 

 

 

Infact, dont just beat the [cabbage] out of him, make it worthwhile, and taunt him while doing it.

 

If he wins, dont give in, you may look kinda weak doing this but you'll look psycho;

 

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bat.