Have you tried just talkign to her, and getting to know her?

I appreciate all the replies and yes, I think I was over reacting. However, (I know I'm going to get argued with here). SHE is the one who moved here from another country and SHE is the one demanding that we go an buy an $ 800 camera. I mean she's the one who moved here. I remember when she was about to move here, I told my dad. "If she respects me and my privacy, I'll do the same" So far, she hasn't respected me. A few weeks ago, I get out of the shower in nothing but a towel. I walk to my bedroom and there she is cleaning. When clearly I told my dad I don't want her in there cleaning. Also, thanks l0rd.

 

I'm not quite sure why the fact that she moved from a foreign is relevant, unless of course you are suggesting she has some sort of relationship inferiority because she is foreign. Also, complaining about her cleaning your room doesn't really put you in the best light in the eyes of the threadviewers. Has it ever appeared to you that cleaning someones room for them is a nice gesture, whether she does it for the rest of the house or not. I'm sure she is not going out of her way to deliberately sabotage your privacy. And speaking from experience, these moves she is making may be her way of trying to reach out to you as a parent.

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. Also, I hate it when brothers 'own' their own food. Your father bought the groceries to share with everyone, what makes you think the icecream belonged to you? If you weren't in such a difficult time in your life I'd slug you in the back of the head.

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. Also, I hate it when brothers 'own' their own food. Your father bought the groceries to share with everyone, what makes you think the icecream belonged to you? If you weren't in such a difficult time in your life I'd slug you in the back of the head.

 

 

 

Don't be so hard on him. His parents (that's right she's your MOM now) are newly weds and probably have loud sex late into the night, directly above his bedroom.

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. Also, I hate it when brothers 'own' their own food. Your father bought the groceries to share with everyone, what makes you think the icecream belonged to you? If you weren't in such a difficult time in your life I'd slug you in the back of the head.

 

 

 

Don't be so hard on him. His parents (that's right she's your MOM now) are newly weds and probably have loud sex late into the night, directly above his bedroom.

 

Nice way to try to help. And no, just for the record, she's not my mom. She's just a maid who lives here. That's how she portrays herself.

Don't leave things in the fridge/freezer/cupboard without putting "bla-bla's food DO NOT EAT!" unless you want it to be gobbled up the next time you go in there :shock:

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself. Also, I hate it when brothers 'own' their own food. Your father bought the groceries to share with everyone, what makes you think the icecream belonged to you? If you weren't in such a difficult time in your life I'd slug you in the back of the head.

 

 

 

Don't be so hard on him. His parents (that's right she's your MOM now) are newly weds and probably have loud sex late into the night, directly above his bedroom.

 

Well no, she isn't. If my parents got divorced and I got a new step-mother/father, I would not consider them as such. That' doesn't mean I'll be disrespectful, but don't say they're my mother/father now.

See this is why I have a tub of Ice cream with 'Rachael's Ice Cream DO NOT EAT' written on it on sharpie. Tbh you can't expect members of your family not to eat stuff in the fridge/freezer unless you specifically say not to. Well that's what I've come across anyway...

 

 

 

my sister does the same thing. :lol:

 

 

 

 

 

@OP: You seem to really be blowing this out of proportion. Dear god no, she cleaned your room! What an invasion of privacy! I mean, you're 14 or 15 years old right now -- you're still a minor. Really though,

 

 

 

You really do sound incredibly selfish and spoilt. Grow up, and learn to accept compromise and respect your dad's new wife, it's not all about you.

 

 

 

Just sums it up.

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned the garage part yet. Here we go.

 

 

 

Boohoo. You have TWO go-karts in your own garage, and your angry that your fathers girlfriend wants to park her car in there, apparently stopping you from getting a DUNE BUGGY? What the [bleep] is your problem, man? You seriously need to grow up and stop being a spoiled [bleep] or you're going to HATE the rest of your life.

 

 

 

Now, I'll try to help you. You don't really need a garage to store a dune buggy. My family has an ATV and a go-kart and we store them outside. You just buy a cover for them, they don't get damaged unless you live in some ridiculous climate zone.

 

 

 

Maybe if you give her sandvich she'll go away.

 

OM NOM NOM

 

Sandvich.

m name is Rasputin. i vant a sanvich.

My dad's friend from the neighborhood told my dad about Russian Brides (Which is the most ridiculous thing in my book) and he started looking on the internet. From October 2005 til May of 2009 (Almost 4 years) my dad was dating 10,000 miles away (soo stupid). And this girl gets here after he talked to her for about a year...

 

Soo...she's officially a gold digger? Because that's what I think when I hear the term mail-order bride.

 

 

 

Mail-order bride - A mail-order bride is a woman who advertises her willingness to marry mainly to better her standard of living

 

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_brides

Mail-order bride - A mail-order bride is a woman who advertises her willingness to marry mainly to better her standard of living

 

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_brides

 

 

 

Sounds like more than a handful of women out there.

You all say he's blowing it out of proportion (which he is just a tiny bit) but I think you're all not getting what he's saying.

 

 

 

She's not just cleaning his room, from what he's saying she completely rearranged it and not just alphabetizing his CDs, like actually moving things. You'd all be pretty annoyed if someone wwas changing your room to they way they like it

 

 

 

The point with the ice cream wasn't just that she ate it, it's that she had her own food to eat but she started going into the food that was meant for him.

 

 

 

He was willing to sell one of his go-karts to be able to buy the dune buggy so it's not like he's trying to fill up the garage with everything he can. He also stated that the woman couldn't drive so there wasn't a real reason for her to have a car.

 

 

 

I see no reason why she wouldn't let him on the computer while she talks to her mother. They're both going to be speaking in Russian so OP won't be able to understand them and there's more than one computer.

 

 

 

Now OP may be annoying her as much as she is annoying him but what they really need to do is compromise with each other.

Key word here is compromise.

 

 

 

One thing I dn't understand though. You said that she bought a sprite, and she doesn't know the value of a dollar. How is that so?

Key word here is compromise.

 

 

 

One thing I dn't understand though. You said that she bought a sprite, and she doesn't know the value of a dollar. How is that so?

 

I was thinking she was the only to get a drink. I'm stumped on that one as well.

your dad's awesome. i thought that stuff was just a scam.

Key word here is compromise.

 

 

 

One thing I dn't understand though. You said that she bought a sprite, and she doesn't know the value of a dollar. How is that so?

 

I was thinking she was the only to get a drink. I'm stumped on that one as well.

 

 

 

I thought he meant that his dad and himself got a meal, but she just got a sprite, and he was pissed because she didn't...get...enough? I dunno, I'm confused too.

My dad's friend from the neighborhood told my dad about Russian Brides (Which is the most ridiculous thing in my book) and he started looking on the internet. From October 2005 til May of 2009 (Almost 4 years) my dad was dating 10,000 miles away (soo stupid). And this girl gets here after he talked to her for about a year...

 

Soo...she's officially a gold digger? Because that's what I think when I hear the term mail-order bride.

 

 

 

Mail-order bride - A mail-order bride is a woman who advertises her willingness to marry mainly to better her standard of living

 

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_brides

 

 

 

First thought I got, when I read that sentence. Obviously OP's father's friend must think that Russian women are easy to obtain and do seem willing to leave everything behind for a better lifestyle. This lady however is maintaining contact with her family.

 

 

 

Either way, change is happening and you must accept whom your father is in love with, or at least be happy for him.

Soo...she's officially a gold digger? Because that's what I think when I hear the term mail-order bride.

 

 

 

Mail-order bride - A mail-order bride is a woman who advertises her willingness to marry mainly to better her standard of living

 

 

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russian_brides

 

 

 

Gold digger? I don't think you can dig vodka

 

 

 

She's not just cleaning his room, from what he's saying she completely rearranged it and not just alphabetizing his CDs, like actually moving things. You'd all be pretty annoyed if someone wwas changing your room to they way they like it

 

 

 

 

Literally comparable to a complete stranger coming in and rearranging your room because it wasn't visually appealing to him.

Yeah, pretty much a gold digger. Wants to buy everything under the sun and it pisses me off. My mom says "Oh, she's the one who finally said yes and she came to America.".

It is none of your business whether she is a gold digger or not.

 

 

 

If your father doesn't see that, and he loves her, then he won't realise by you telling him, and it'll make you appear as more of a spoiled brat.

I really don't see any problems here... I mean there are a few little things here and there but nothing that would get me mad... I think you just calm down and move on with life... every things not going to work out the way you want it to...