What You Consider Attractive in Men and Women

[Giordano]

I'm into girls that are brunette, have brown eyes, girls that are as tall or shorter then me, pretty eyes, and a nice smile. I also like petit women. For the most part I'm not into women with large breasts. I hate women with boobs that just dominate their bodies its just not attractive to me. I also like a nice [wagon], I can't lie. I also like a girl with a good sense of fashion. I'm a sucker for girls in designer clothes.

 

Exactly like me. :lol: Fashion plays a big part. I like a girl who takes the time to dress to look nice, but not spend too much time and effort on it.

 

 

 

As for the shoe, thing, I can't stand toes. So the shoe posted above me are the most I'll go.

 

 

 

 

o_o You? Sexist? Wow. How? What?

 

 

 

I don't know what to say. I just have old fashioned views on this subject I suppose.

 

 

 

From what I know about Lateralus, he's not the modern sexist - just uhh, finds the average woman "different".

 

I know what he means, and I have to somewhat agree with him.

[Lenin64]

Wasn't the bra originally intended to liberate women from the oppressive corset? I have a source on that somewhere, I'll try and find it.

 

 

 

OT: I like 'em red. That's the only defining quality, anything else just depends on the girl. But you can't go wrong with red hair.

 

 

 

Although I find that a moderately large, though not bulbous or extreme, nose is fairly attractive.

[deathdrow]

Wasn't the bra originally intended to liberate women from the oppressive corset? I have a source on that somewhere, I'll try and find it.

 

 

 

OT: I like 'em red. That's the only defining quality, anything else just depends on the girl. But you can't go wrong with red hair.

 

 

 

Although I find that a moderately large, though not bulbous or extreme, nose is fairly attractive.

 

Just like the plain red shirts I imagine you in!

[fastortoise]

In all honestly, when i'm scoping out bars, i'm looking for tall blonds.... Also girls with short hair and big bambie eyes, I could kill for one of them.

[The Dark Lord]

Physically, I'm not shallow as to how they look. It's not like I want them to be ugly, though. Moderate-sized breasts and a small [wagon] is sufficient.

 

 

 

The personality is much more important. I can't stand women that have a controlling personality. These are the women that love to gossip and spread drama and possess this supercilious attitude. Seriously, I hate them all. I prefer women that aren't that dainty and don't emphasize their looks to the point of obsessiveness. I also don't like women that act submissive either. I don't want to feel like a control-freak. I want a relationship to be equal. I also like smart women that love to learn, just like I love to learn. Since I have more of an introverted personality, I would probably prefer someone with a similar personality. Again, not too introverted where they are timid and overly-quiet, but they aren't overly social either. I'm more of a person that keeps to himself, so a mate that is similar would probably be ideal.

[xSxqPowerx]

Ummmmmm

 

Brown hair, generally.

 

Big-ish eyes I think?

 

Not huge breasts.

 

 

 

Not too specific lookwise.

 

Personality wise, I'm only attracted to people who are very laid back, but also above average intelligence/openmindedness. Nerdiness is a plus :

[nerdattack16]

Wasn't the bra originally intended to liberate women from the oppressive corset? I have a source on that somewhere, I'll try and find it.

 

 

 

OT: I like 'em red. That's the only defining quality, anything else just depends on the girl. But you can't go wrong with red hair.

 

 

 

Although I find that a moderately large, though not bulbous or extreme, nose is fairly attractive.

 

I dated an Irish girl once. Red hair, green eyes... only been in the US for a couple years now so she still had a faint Irish accent ([cabbage] was SO cash). She was one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen.

 

 

 

I definitely have a thing for redheads, but any hair will do. Preferably curly. Not taller than me (haha) but not really short, preferably like an inch or so shorter than me? Somewhere around my weight too (skinny). Boobs don't really matter, although I prefer 'em smaller and perkier.

 

 

 

Able to carry an intelligent conversation, likes to watch funny movies, wants to play video games with me, knows things about nerdy stuff, quieter, sarcastic, good taste in books/music, doesn't hate me for liking Rush, can laugh at herself, isn't afraid to laugh at me, likes to eat good food. Oh, and a dog person. No cats. And not sissy dogs either. No Chihuahuas, poodles, etc.

[Furah]

Been a while since I did something like this.

 

 

 

Looks-wise:

 

 

 

- Long, light/medium brown hair.

 

- Blue or green eyes.

 

- GLASSES. Usually a big plus.

 

- Not too much on the chest (not completely flat, but not huge either. B is a nice medium).

 

- I don't mind too much about figure, but as long as they aren't a twig or a whale I'm fine with it.

 

- Small feet are quite appealing for some reason. As are small hands.

 

- Short. In the 5' - 5'3" range, preferably.

 

 

 

Personality-wise:

 

 

 

- Quiet, reserved and polite. Last one is big for me. I would date a girl who isn't the first two if she's polite, definitely.

 

- Must respect my love for music. They don't have to even be a music listener, just as long as they don't try and bring down the music I listen to.

 

- Must not want to spend all my money. Another big one seeing as how I hardly ever have any money.

 

- Bonus points if they're a bit geeky. Now I'm not talking Asperger's levels of geekiness, but a little bit is nice.

 

- Ideally she should have some cognitive function. I'm not talking philosophical levels, but holding down a conversation about something interesting is a plus.

 

 

 

Of course, these can be adapted. I'm not as picky as it looks :P

 

Hello myself.

[Plugpoint]

Women who also believe that we should substitute book burnings with bra burnings.

 

Oh jeez, really? But they'll end up all saggy and disgusting! Plus bras stop you looking like you have two peas stuck down your top when it gets cold. Just sayin'.

 

 

 

Honestly, I thought looking through this thread would depress me but it's actually made me feel a little better about myself so thank you guys :

[Flodder450]

a big dose of random humor,amnd nice boobs/[wagon], lol

[Furah]

Women who also believe that we should substitute book burnings with bra burnings.

 

Oh jeez, really? But they'll end up all saggy and disgusting! Plus bras stop you looking like you have two peas stuck down your top when it gets cold. Just sayin'.

 

 

 

Honestly, I thought looking through this thread would depress me but it's actually made me feel a little better about myself so thank you guys :

 

Girls judge each other, men are just grateful.

[Racheya]

Been a while since I did something like this.

 

 

 

Looks-wise:

 

 

 

- Long, light/medium brown hair.

 

- Blue or green eyes.

 

- GLASSES. Usually a big plus.

 

- Not too much on the chest (not completely flat, but not huge either. B is a nice medium).

 

- I don't mind too much about figure, but as long as they aren't a twig or a whale I'm fine with it.

 

- Small feet are quite appealing for some reason. As are small hands.

 

- Short. In the 5' - 5'3" range, preferably.

 

 

 

Personality-wise:

 

 

 

- Quiet, reserved and polite. Last one is big for me. I would date a girl who isn't the first two if she's polite, definitely.

 

- Must respect my love for music. They don't have to even be a music listener, just as long as they don't try and bring down the music I listen to.

 

- Must not want to spend all my money. Another big one seeing as how I hardly ever have any money.

 

- Bonus points if they're a bit geeky. Now I'm not talking Asperger's levels of geekiness, but a little bit is nice.

 

- Ideally she should have some cognitive function. I'm not talking philosophical levels, but holding down a conversation about something interesting is a plus.

 

 

 

Of course, these can be adapted. I'm not as picky as it looks :P

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

 

 

Anyway what I would look for in a man would be someone that wasn't an [wagon]. Simple. And someone that can put up with my rather annoying computer addictions, inability to cook and general anti-socialism :P I don't care what they look like as long as they're not REALLY tall so I look even smaller than I am.

[Furah]

Been a while since I did something like this.

 

 

 

Looks-wise:

 

 

 

- Long, light/medium brown hair.

 

- Blue or green eyes.

 

- GLASSES. Usually a big plus.

 

- Not too much on the chest (not completely flat, but not huge either. B is a nice medium).

 

- I don't mind too much about figure, but as long as they aren't a twig or a whale I'm fine with it.

 

- Small feet are quite appealing for some reason. As are small hands.

 

- Short. In the 5' - 5'3" range, preferably.

 

 

 

Personality-wise:

 

 

 

- Quiet, reserved and polite. Last one is big for me. I would date a girl who isn't the first two if she's polite, definitely.

 

- Must respect my love for music. They don't have to even be a music listener, just as long as they don't try and bring down the music I listen to.

 

- Must not want to spend all my money. Another big one seeing as how I hardly ever have any money.

 

- Bonus points if they're a bit geeky. Now I'm not talking Asperger's levels of geekiness, but a little bit is nice.

 

- Ideally she should have some cognitive function. I'm not talking philosophical levels, but holding down a conversation about something interesting is a plus.

 

 

 

Of course, these can be adapted. I'm not as picky as it looks :P

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

 

 

Anyway what I would look for in a man would be someone that wasn't an [wagon]. Simple. And someone that can put up with my rather annoying computer addictions, inability to cook and general anti-socialism :P I don't care what they look like as long as they're not REALLY tall so I look even smaller than I am.

 

-.-

 

That makes 2 of us, I can't cook.

[muggiwhplar]

Sweet and innocent with big cans \

[Maze]

Been a while since I did something like this.

 

 

 

Looks-wise:

 

 

 

- Long, light/medium brown hair.

 

- Blue or green eyes.

 

- GLASSES. Usually a big plus.

 

- Not too much on the chest (not completely flat, but not huge either. B is a nice medium).

 

- I don't mind too much about figure, but as long as they aren't a twig or a whale I'm fine with it.

 

- Small feet are quite appealing for some reason. As are small hands.

 

- Short. In the 5' - 5'3" range, preferably.

 

 

 

Personality-wise:

 

 

 

- Quiet, reserved and polite. Last one is big for me. I would date a girl who isn't the first two if she's polite, definitely.

 

- Must respect my love for music. They don't have to even be a music listener, just as long as they don't try and bring down the music I listen to.

 

- Must not want to spend all my money. Another big one seeing as how I hardly ever have any money.

 

- Bonus points if they're a bit geeky. Now I'm not talking Asperger's levels of geekiness, but a little bit is nice.

 

- Ideally she should have some cognitive function. I'm not talking philosophical levels, but holding down a conversation about something interesting is a plus.

 

 

 

Of course, these can be adapted. I'm not as picky as it looks :P

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

 

 

Anyway what I would look for in a man would be someone that wasn't an [wagon]. Simple. And someone that can put up with my rather annoying computer addictions, inability to cook and general anti-socialism :P I don't care what they look like as long as they're not REALLY tall so I look even smaller than I am.

 

 

 

Bolded text is me. :-#

[Zierro]

I find emo/goth girls attractive, but at the same time I think those are the stupidest cliques to ever exist. Can't have the best of both worlds. :|

 

 

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

Stop hitting on Silver. :shame:

 

 

 

So it's not just me and Zierro feeling this "vibe".

 

 

 

Haha yeah, vibe wasn't a good word. More like lack of one.

 

 

 

PS: I can sympathize with Lateralus a lot about the "sexism". I think women should get just as much rights as men and everything but I'd much rather hang out with the guys - which is saying a lot.

[Jernlov]

Hello myself.

...and there I was, thinking that nobody ever would have similar preferences to me.

 

 

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

Oh wow.

 

 

 

 

 

I find emo/goth girls attractive, but at the same time I think those are the stupidest cliques to ever exist. Can't have the best of both worlds. :|

 

 

 

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

Stop hitting on Silver. :shame:

Hahahaha.

[issy2]

Hmm. Interesting question. I've always had a big thing for curly hair, especially red or brown. If I were a guy, I guess, slight hips and a small frame, but in an athletic kind of way, I'd find looking weak or fragile really off-putting. Not much make up, I love the natural look. Vintage/individualistic fashion sense - by that I mean someone who looks good, but doesn't define looking good as looking the same as everyone else.

 

In terms of personality... competence, wit, eloquence, enthusiasm... someone relatively optimistic and with a lot of common sense. I'd like someone always willing to experiment and be adventurous.

 

But most of all I'd want intelligence and tact - and I mean social intelligence as well as 'academic' intelligence. Doesn't go shouting their mouth off, doesn't gossip, can easily tell other's people emotions if necessary... and can stand up for themselves and not get beaten down by other people.

[Racheya]

Dude. That's me. O_O

 

 

 

Stop hitting on Silver. :shame:

 

 

No!

 

...

 

...

 

 

 

Erm... I mean... I'm not!

 

Yeah... that...

[rangeor]

Looks aren't that important to me, she just has to be able to take care of herself properly. Nice eyes and hair are a plus though.

 

 

 

Respectful and empathetic are some good traits.

[Lenticular_J]

Haha, I have really low standards. If I can stand to be in their company for a few hours, good enough for me. Still not sure what I'd consider a perfect girl. Not an idiot, that's for sure.

 

 

 

I like taller girls, though. Not quite as tall as me, but close.

 

 

 

I have a feeling my perfect girl would be crazy, though. Sounds like it would fit me.

[Hawks]

I'm really quite surprised at this... I appear to have most of the traits that you people find attractive. Though I'd never wear heels; I can wear hockey skates, but no heels.

[Omar]

^Heels aren't a necessity at all, flats/sneakers are fine too. Just as long as they're not ugly.

 

 

 

Physically, head hair is very important. Clear skin - no ridiculous expectations obviously, but not textured like the friggin' moon - and good proportions. Small breasts aren't a bad thing at all, big is just as good, just as long as they don't sag, that's always horrible. Butt can be big or small, just as long as it doesn't droop or wrinkle in certain positions. Not too hairy.

 

Intelligent - not necessarily a rocket scientist, but not stupid, it's annoying. Creativity would be nice, musician is even better. Funny and not too shy also. Curiosity and being willing to try new things is also a necessity.

 

- Small feet are quite appealing for some reason. As are small hands.

 

On that topic, I've decided all feet are ugly. I don't have any expectations for them though, so it doesn't turn me off or anything.

 

Forgot to mention, enjoys a party/dancing. I don't mean start doing shots and all, just dancing and talking.

[Dexek]

These topics appear often it seems. I'm attracted to girls who are physically active, intelligent, and share my sense of humour. Most attractive physical attribute has to be a great smile. Petite girls are especially attractive. I really can't get too much into particulars as I have been attracted to a variety of women.

 

 

 

Generally if she's physically attractive and has a great sense of humour we can get along great.

[Meta318]

I've been attracted to girls that all seem different(sorry i don't like fat girls what so ever.) Except I'm not attracted to really dark skin(not in a racist way). It comes down to if I see her attractive, then it comes down to her personality which i'm not too sure on what I like.