Lose No Hope Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I could give a story like that, but it's not going to work out for me anyhow. [hide]unbinding green's kidneys for ltk's heartdo you farm guam like me sir ltk[/hide] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furah Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Jerk.Fine, be that way. It's just that after RPG said this: can someone please come in here saying that they met the most beautiful girl so that we can instruct him on how to be a proper gentlemen, and treat her right and then have her fall for him so that they may live happily ever after? The right way. None of this modern-sensitive ass-hat thing. I immediately thought that you deserved it. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tim Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Cause it never works for a fact. I think I've had more then enough tries. Popoto.~<3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamdan Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Well, it's led me to conclude this page as such: Nice guys never get laid. Yup, against all laws of evolution and such (which should have weeded this gene out), general "bad boys" so to speak get laid more often, if at all. [\quote] Not so much that, but the kind of guy who puts the girl up on a pedestal, is insecure and eliminates all conflict tend to get minimal choice of women, and often none when they are younger. "Bad boys" do have attractive qualities, but you can have those qualities without being a jerk. Also I wasn't saying all girls just want to use you, but for every guy using a girl, there is a girl using a guy. Highschool girls seem to be able to use guys without even realising it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furah Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Well, it's led me to conclude this page as such: Nice guys never get laid. Yup, against all laws of evolution and such (which should have weeded this gene out), general "bad boys" so to speak get laid more often, if at all. And most of those are generally arrogant [puncture]s, generally being the key word. I guess I'll be dark and sarcastic from now on, maybe it'll help. That and women seem to only want to use you and then throw you away.Actually these 'bad boys' are the ones who have the evolutionary benefit because they tend to be healthy, strong, and have commanding personalities which they usually pass off onto their offspring. Steam | PM me for BBM PIN Nine naked men is a technological achievement. Quote of 2013. PCGamingWiki - Let's fix PC gaming! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jeffwilson99 Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Some people out there seem pretty bitter. Lol says the guy that hasn't had a girlfriend in quite some time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nifflin Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 It's easy for guys to go that way when they find out being the nice guy doesn't work for them. I was a nice guy and girls would walk all over me, using me as an emotional crutch while they developed feelings for others. Then I tried something different and a girl fell for me within hours when the first thing I said to her was accusing her of drinking out of a toilet with her ipod in her top pocket because she said she dropped her ipod in one. I was amazed and intrigued. Years later I'm much more successful with women, why would I ever go back to being the nice guy? The door swings both ways. This. I was on the greener side of the fence for many years, you can even search back and see me arguing with fiery passion against this kind of thing [mostly against IamDan lol] but...it just works. And if this is what life truly wants of me, there's no sense in turning back. This again. If girls didn't say that wanted the nice guy then walk all over them when they met him guys would actually be nice. At the same time "nice guys" often have it all backwards. They expect that by being nice and being crutches somehow the girl will owe them something and maybe go for them. Girls will never do that. Your chances of hooking up, or even getting noticed by girls with the potential to actually have relationships with is so much higher if you are confident and perhaps less nice. Honestly I would love to just be a nice guy if it actually worked with getting girls. Since it doesn't that really leaves me no choice. Edit: Then again, I've less experience with older girls. PM me in game anytime It's a lot easier then that for an idiot to sound smart on the internet. That's exactly what you're doing right now... just saying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirror Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 It's all about confidence. It doesn't matter if you're nice or not, it's all about confidence. It just is assumed that being a jerk has a way of perceiving to be confident. Nice guys can be confident as well and have meaningful relationships. I speak from personal experience. I'm a very genuine nice guy and am super confident in myself and my abilities, and plenty of girls are attracted to that they tell me. Not just in personal relationships but also in social, work, and other contexts as well. I am also sarcastic and be a jerk in that sense, but it's all my personality and never truly mean it, that's where I hope people can draw the line, and not be genuinely mean and a jerk to women. I am currently in a happy and loving relationship with a girl right now, not because I was a jerk to her or anything like that, I just made her laugh and had confidence in myself which she told me made myself attractive. My advice, just be confident. It changes your world view for the better, you feel better about yourself, and just have fun in life. Nothing is worth over thinking or over doing. Just live.My other advice, college freshmen think they come to school looking for a ring. Use that to your advantage. That's how I got into the dating realm plus also some of my best friends. :) A reflection is just a distorted reality held by glass and your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omar Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Rpg, you'd be witnessing that success story yourself if you didn't use girls. I can't believe you claim you love helping people. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Just got dumped over the phone by Ellen, again. She said she started having doubts a couple of weeks after we got back together. Ah well, I lived through this before, I can do it again. 2257AD.TUMBLR.COM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamdan Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 It's definately much more than just confidence, especially since you can just fake that, but it is needed. Body languge, knowing how to escalate physically, consistancy, liking yourself, having an interesting life and so much more come into it. It depends on your priorities. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
muggiwhplar Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 Outcome independence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamdan Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 An interesting way to word it, but that too for sure. Especially before you have sexual with a girl, if she thinks you have invested too much emotionally or care too much about the outcome it will scare her away. it should too. If you have plenty of options already, why should you be hung up about a girl you barely know? It seems pretty desperate, so be aloof instead. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirror Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 I know it's much more than confidence, there are a lot of areas to explore, but out of my interactions, that is definitely a huge one to be aware of. Oh well, I'm not speaking to the crowd looking to hook up to have One nighters or anything of the sort. I'm looking to help out anyone who just needs encouragement or hope to keep going to find that one guy or girl. :) A reflection is just a distorted reality held by glass and your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Range_This11 Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Just got dumped over the phone by Ellen, again. She said she started having doubts a couple of weeks after we got back together. Ah well, I lived through this before, I can do it again.Over the phone?? That's [bleep]ing weaaaak on her part. You should really consider placing a bag of dog [cabbage] on her front step, lighting it, ringing the door bell, and running away. That'll show her. "He could climb to it, if he climbed alone, and once there he could suck on the pap of life, gulp down the incomparable milk of wonder." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_love_burritos Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 ^lol highschool girlfriends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omar Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Just got dumped over the phone by Ellen, again. She said she started having doubts a couple of weeks after we got back together. Ah well, I lived through this before, I can do it again.Over the phone?? That's [bleep]ing weaaaak on her part. You should really consider placing a bag of dog [cabbage] on her front step, lighting it, ringing the door bell, and running away. That'll show her.She was unable to go see him, it was the best she could do. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamdan Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 I broke up with a girl over text in highschool. I reasoned that I only saw her once a week anyway because we went to different schools and I had no access to public transport, plus we were only together a month. I figured it was better than having my parents drop me off, pretend to be into her for a few hours then break up with her.I know it's much more than confidence, there are a lot of areas to explore, but out of my interactions, that is definitely a huge one to be aware of. Oh well, I'm not speaking to the crowd looking to hook up to have One nighters or anything of the sort. I'm looking to help out anyone who just needs encouragement or hope to keep going to find that one guy or girl. :)I think confidence isn't something you can just have. It comes from success with women in the first place. That's why I faked it until I had it. Just being confident is faking it, which isn't a bad thing temporarily. The thing is, you can't 'just be confident' and then jump into a relationship or it won't last. 1 night stands help turn faked confidence into the real thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirror Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Not just confidence in women, confidence in yourself and abilities in every aspect in life. Yes, you can't just *poof* I am confident! No, it's always an on going process, but in time, believing in yourself in all aspects in life will flow into other areas, which includes the other gender I am arguing for. You're right, you can't just jump into a relationship expecting it to work out. It takes time and effort, but that's another discussion. If you're just wanting to get your feet wet, being confident in yourself about life will dramatically increase how well one can communicate and act around people and will ultimately help you out when trying to land that first date, build a connection, and go from there. :) A reflection is just a distorted reality held by glass and your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ouchy Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Just got dumped over the phone by Ellen, again. She said she started having doubts a couple of weeks after we got back together. Ah well, I lived through this before, I can do it again.Over the phone?? That's [bleep]ing weaaaak on her part. You should really consider placing a bag of dog [cabbage] on her front step, lighting it, ringing the door bell, and running away. That'll show her. At least its better than by text. And placing [cabbage] on her front step would be the worst thing to do. My relaxation method involves a bottle of lotion, beautiful women, and partial nudity. Yes I get massages. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Rpg, you'd be witnessing that success story yourself if you didn't use girls. I can't believe you claim you love helping people. When I help people, I help them improve themselves and become the confident being they need to be. What I do, some people view as using girls. Fine, fair enough. But I do not encourage said behavior out of those whom I help. And when I go into "jerk" mode, it's not sincere. I'm a serious guy who's never serious. Of course I treat women with respect and and whatnot. I just happened to not commit to any of them, while dating many others. People come to me asking for help. I give them the means to help themselves. Which is excruciatingly hard to do online, but when's the last time I really heavily advised one individual on here to do anything specific? I know where my boundaries are. In the realm of reality, I can be much more articulate, and give more time and effort to those I'm helping. It's almost an entirely different process. I understand where you're coming from, just don't be too harsh of a judge, when you don't truly know who I am. @Sam: I dig the attitude, brush off your shoulders and move on. Take your time. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Range_This11 Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Just got dumped over the phone by Ellen, again. She said she started having doubts a couple of weeks after we got back together. Ah well, I lived through this before, I can do it again.Over the phone?? That's [bleep]ing weaaaak on her part. You should really consider placing a bag of dog [cabbage] on her front step, lighting it, ringing the door bell, and running away. That'll show her. At least its better than by text. And placing [cabbage] on her front step would be the worst thing to do.Do you really think I am honestly suggesting the flaming bag of doo? :---) "He could climb to it, if he climbed alone, and once there he could suck on the pap of life, gulp down the incomparable milk of wonder." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mirror Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 Text message? I got that before saying "It's not you, it's me." Yep, that's right, you heard me. <_< A reflection is just a distorted reality held by glass and your mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 She seems to think it's OK that she led me on for over a month. Texted her saying: "You dumped me last night, just want to know that you're not gonna change your mind like before, I'm going to move on if that's the case." 2257AD.TUMBLR.COM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omar Posted June 11, 2011 Share Posted June 11, 2011 As far as I'm concerned, it is okay, Sam. It takes a while before you're sure you're not going to change your mind, as you said. Rpg, you'd be witnessing that success story yourself if you didn't use girls. I can't believe you claim you love helping people. When I help people, I help them improve themselves and become the confident being they need to be. What I do, some people view as using girls. Fine, fair enough. But I do not encourage said behavior out of those whom I help. And when I go into "jerk" mode, it's not sincere. I'm a serious guy who's never serious. Of course I treat women with respect and and whatnot. I just happened to not commit to any of them, while dating many others. People come to me asking for help. I give them the means to help themselves. Which is excruciatingly hard to do online, but when's the last time I really heavily advised one individual on here to do anything specific? I know where my boundaries are. In the realm of reality, I can be much more articulate, and give more time and effort to those I'm helping. It's almost an entirely different process.It seems to me you assume everyone has the same expectations as you when, believe it or not, that's not true, especially if you fish in the high school pond. It's fine if both people know exactly what's going on, but if you're being dishonest, you're a liar, because you're making a tacit agreement and not planning on abiding by its rules. I fail to see how you're helping girls improve themselves and become more confident. You're just setting up the basis for trust problems; you're encouraging those girls to behave like you in the exact same way your ex encouraged you to [bleep] around.I really am being very judgmental and I apologize for that, but try as I might, I can't help but think you're an [wagon]; that being said, you're right in that I know too little to make my mind up. That's not my goal here; I just hope if I'm right about the way you treat the girls you hook up with, you might tread more carefully from now on. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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