Everyone here will say that looks aren't everything, but really, c'mon. The first thing you would look for is someone who is pretty.

 

 

 

"You don't like someone just because of her looks". After reading a few posts, I realized that that sentence is a pretty "controversial" one as there is no accurate measurement for prettiness or handsome-ness. Everything is measured by we ourselves and no one can tell us who is or is not pretty.

 

 

 

So yea, whoever created that sentence is not meaningful or stuff, the person is actually judging their own opinion for others.

 

Actually, we're more attracted to people who are "normal". As in, people who look like everyone else is attractive to us. If everyone was fat, had pimples etc, that would be attractive.

I like a girl who's sweet and pretty, and also who appreciates art and design.

I could never date a girl who uses the phrase "Oh my gawwwd" more than once per day. I need a girl that can think for herself and can form her own opinions about things. I definitely could never date a girl that wears UGG boots because of how ridiculously stupid they are. I prefer darker haired girls to lighter haired, but I really don't discriminate when it comes down to it. I'd take an average girl over a hot girl any day if she can think for herself. That's my biggest hook.

Someone who is shorter than me

Skinny.

 

 

 

I cannot stand fat girls.

 

 

 

She could have the prettiest face in the world but if shes fat she gotz ta go.

 

 

 

Also I've been liking russian girls of late.

Someone who is shorter than me

 

Same, actually.

 

I'm quite old fashioned like that, I need to be taller and older than my partner. :)

Not fat, not stupid, doesn't smoke...

 

I won't say shorter until I'm a little taller lol.

 

 

 

Good looks (obviously) and decent intellence as well.

 

 

 

Meh I could be really picky, but then I'd have no hope :lol:

Let's see.

 

Fluency in more than one language, preferably English and Swedish. Maturity, I don't want someone who giggles every time somebody says "Sex". Someone who's the social opposite of me, i.e. who doesn't just stand around in the corner during school breaks. Oh, and this one is unrealistic, but one with more than a basic understanding of computers and is still my age. And if she's a socialist or a communist, all the better.

Ok, after looking through all these posts. (surprised I got 2 pages in one day...) No one has said the word HIPS not once!

Short, psychotic and not afraid to kick my arse.

I look for a pretty face, hair and beautiful eyes (preferably blue). Also for a good personality. (I'm very tough to please.)

Short, psychotic and not afraid to kick my arse.

 

 

 

I would agree with the last one,as long as she isn't going to kill my [wagon] instead of kick it...

 

 

 

How did no one make fun of me growing up?I'm just too weird to comprehend myself.

Intelligence, kindness, sense of humor, appearance being secondary to all those.

what i look for in a girl is basically how hot she is, if shes funny and laughs at my jokes, and whether she takes me seriously or not

On topic: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/tor/881177993.html

Intelligent, interesting (doing something with her life, surprises me, has viewpoints, goals, plans, hobbies, ambitions - all good, I just don't want a doll), not fat (sorry, I am thin, I've just never been attracted to larger women - although I wouldn't necessarily rule it out completely), caring.

slender with curves, smart (doesnt have to be too intelligent, but at least be able to have some serious discussion), cultured, capable of letting her hair down every now and then, strong-willed, 5'3-5, has interests different from mine (but shares some of mine), and last of all, lady-in-the-street-freak-in-the-bed type of gal.

They need to be at least kind of smart (A's, B's and C's...), 'nice', have a good sense of humor, friendly, like me for who I am and not 'cause I'm smart, it'd be nice if they didn't swear a lot... Obviously they can't be drug addicts... Dressing nice and having good hygine would be a plus too.

slender with curves, smart (doesnt have to be too intelligent, but at least be able to have some serious discussion), cultured, capable of letting her hair down every now and then, strong-willed, 5'3-5, has interests different from mine (but shares some of mine), and last of all, lady-in-the-street-freak-in-the-bed type of gal.

 

 

 

I'm shocked to say that I actually got ninja'd in a post like this. :shock:

 

 

 

Just change to 5'5 to 5'8(I'm 6'1 and still growing, 5'3 is a tad too short for me).

 

 

 

Also, she can't be one of the crazy ones that pisses you off intentionally just to "make up" later.

Looks are the first thing I notice sice I usualy see a girl before I hear her. In that department I have a few basic guidelines:

 

- Long hair is best, preferably nothing shorter than shoulder lenth.

 

- Strait hair. Wavy hair also works (alot of girls with strain hair make it wavy on special occasions).

 

- Propertions. I don't want beth size (from Dog the Bounty Hunter) boobs, or an outrageously large [wagon] if its not proportioned to the rest of the body. Not being over weight is key.

 

- Too much makeup is a turnoff for me. I find it makes people look like plastic.

 

 

 

Then theres personalyity. Ultimatly more important since it dosen't matter how good you look, if I cant stand your personality things just wont work.

 

- She has to be inteligent. For this I preffer wisdom over knowledge. Basicly good logic and resoning. If we ever get into an argument I do not want to be arguing with the intelectual equivalent of a brick. When we get along, I wan't engaging discussion. We don't need to agree on everything (how boring that would be), but debating neds to make sense.

 

- A sense of humor. I do not mean bathroom humor (thats what family guys for) though its best if they can appreciate it (because I watch family guy). I have been told I have a dry sense of humor, and thats my preferance in other people.

 

- Movies with Gratuitous (excesive) Violence. If I am going to end up watching chick flicks, she can watch movies with action (think "Bad Boys" and "The Transporter") and then other action movies such as Star Wars and the Stargate Series. I can learn to like a chickflick (I hope), she can do the same for me.

 

- The word 'like'. If it gets used in every sentance the relationship is no go. I don't mind teh word when used appropriatly or even in slight excess, but when it crops up one or more times in four of every five sentances theres a problem.

 

- Height. I don't seem to have this problem. I have met precious few girls reently over 6ft tall. Really short is not my preferance, I don't like needing to look down. I think idealy she would be an inch or two shorther than me so 5'10" to 5'11".

 

 

 

Then there are some considerations if things go long term:

 

- Religion. I am not overly religious but there are some personal stipulations. I don't actualy care what religion she belongs to (not entirely true, I have some exceptions), as long as I don't need to be part of it. Teh big one is (Roman) Catholic which I flatly refuse to become. You might get me into a Protastant church, but United (Church of Canada) is my religion. There are denominations of christianity which I can't stand for personal resons, the big one being Seventh Day Adventist. Judaism is good so long as we can observe both Juwish and Christian holidays. Other religions can be handled on an individual basis. Athiesim/Agnositicisim are ok so long as it does not infringe om my belifies (my dad attends church about 3 times a year so I go with my mom).

Dazzling looks, wit and intellect.

 

 

 

If I was looking for a long term partner I think I'd want all of the above, plus a deep bond with her family. I think girls who love their families tend to be more committed in relationships.

What do I look for in a dame? She should be rather handsome, we might kinda look the same. But she should be pretty, preferably from New York City.

 

 

 

But seriously, I just need someone who can intellectually keep up. Of course she does need to be at least modestly hot. Oh, and bonus points if she finds my eccentricities endearing.

I look for a girls that aren't just interested in looks, but it's been a pretty hard find lately (at least where I live). -.-

 

 

 

Looks are the first thing you're going to notice about a person. If there's no physical attraction, there's little chance of a relationship coming forth.

 

 

 

All of the characteristics none of you have :thumbup: .

 

 

 

You can't honestly tell me you can sit there and deny my body :-$

 

But seriously, I just need someone who can intellectually keep up. Of course she does need to be at least modestly hot. Oh, and bonus points if she finds my eccentricities endearing.

 

 

 

Hell,I find them endearing,honey.Heh.

 

 

 

Dang Reb,straight to the point eh?Its so fun that my problems in relationships mainly come from choosing.

in looks,

 

-i like girls who aren't to short, but aren't almost as tall as me either, i need to be bigger than they are. I'm 6'1, and i like girls who are between 5'5 and 5'10

 

-i like girls who don't dress like everybody else does, i especially hate preppy girls. they annoy me a lot.

 

-don't want the girl to be really obese, but i don't mind a little extra weight. i hate really skinny girls.

 

-i like brunettes and blonde haired girls. don't find redheads or dark haired girls to be too attractive.

 

-a girl who doesn't have big boobs.

 

personality wise,

 

-intelligence is really really important. i hate stupid girls. this is absolutely necessary in a girl.

 

-someone who can keep up a conversation with me.

 

-someone who doesn't act like all the generic girls that i go to school with.

 

-a different personality. someone who is a lot different than other people.

 

-a girl who can understand me. cause I'm a bit of a screwed up person sometimes.

 

-likes biting. i have a biting fetish.

 

-uses good grammar, i hate when girls use bad grammar.

 

 

 

not all of those are necessary, just what i prefer.

 

the only thing i need is for the girl to be decently attractive, and to be intelligent.