July 10, 200818 yr You just tell her its over. Stringing her along is the worst you could do. She'll be more devestated later than now. Denizen of Darkness| PSN= sworddude198
July 10, 200818 yr Noooo no no no, not as in love. The "love" that seemingly all girls believe they have after two weeks of simply dating. Luckily I'm not in that bad of a situation. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
July 10, 200818 yr Noooo no no no, not as in love. The "love" that seemingly all girls believe they have after two weeks of simply dating. Luckily I'm not in that bad of a situation. Oh sorry, I thought you meant you'd been in a relationship for a few months and you'd just got fed up of it. :lol: Let her down gently. Don't keep it going or you'll cause her more harm in the long-run. If you keep this going, when it does break apart, she'll have to ask herself why you felt you had to lie about your emotions towards her just to make her feel better about herself. If you don't like her, just tell her. Say it's not really working out. It's not too late to go back to being just friends, so long as she accepts it's nothing more than that. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules |
July 10, 200818 yr The thing is, I do like her and want to keep dating. I just don't want to say I love her, because, well, it's not true. Plus I know this probably won't last long, so I want to enjoy it. catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
July 11, 200818 yr The thing is, I do like her and want to keep dating. I just don't want to say I love her, because, well, it's not true. Plus I know this probably won't last long, so I want to enjoy it. So you both don't love each other but do like each other... Am I the only one failing to see the problem here? "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is."
July 11, 200818 yr Okay, what if your girlfriend tells you she loves you, and you know you don't love her back? And that she probably doesn't actually love you? No idea what to do here. Scrubs doesn't help :( Mind you, dealing with 15-year old moody teenaged womens, here. Be honest. I was like you, if I didn't love someone I never said it back and felt bad but don't feel bad! If you tell her you love her and you actually don't, things can get complicated and it's going to make you feel awkward. When a guy has told me he loved me and I didn't love him back I said something like "I'm not ready to say it back my feelings haven't evolved as much as yours but that doesn't mean it can't change in the future." 15 year old moody teenaged women? Better get used to it babe, I haven't met a woman who isn't moody lol if you can find a cure will you let me know :lol: I've been honest enough to tell Brent in the past that I was losing my feelings for him. Because I was honest enough to come forward we were able to recap what made us so special to begin with and save our relationship. Honesty and communication are very important, especially when you find someone you're serious about. Communication doesn't come easy either. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.
July 11, 200818 yr Eh, I figured my usual blunt approach wouldn't be too good. Then again, we're pretty blunt with each other...Well, thanks guys :) catch it now so you can like it before it went so mainstream
July 11, 200818 yr If that's who you are then do it. No use not being blunt if your personality is different. If you pretended to be delicate about people's feelings and then one day got comfortable and BAM told the truth... Imagine how much more damage that would do lol Women can always tell when you're not being yourself, we have magic powers, all that draining must cause our mood swings ;) I know if Brent is having a bad day, the second he walks through the door. The only people who tell you that you can't do something are those who have already given up on their own dreams so feel the need to discourage yours.
July 11, 200818 yr 15 year old moody teenaged women? Better get used to it babe, I haven't met a woman who isn't moody lol if you can find a cure will you let me know Yeah, All girls/women are emotional beings to a certain extent. And I demand that no cure be made! They can be moody but communicating with them on an emotional level is such a delight : 76th to reach 99 Construction on 6th of February 2007379th to reach 99 Runecrafting on 4th of November 2007 Finally the secrets of goal achieving are revealed! (give my guide a read :^_^: )
July 11, 200818 yr Not to be rude Solidus, but you know so much about girls you sound like one. In a good way :lol:
July 11, 200818 yr Not to be rude Solidus, but you know so much about girls you sound like one. In a good way :lol: Perhaps I should not hold back on the manliness then :lol: . Jk, thanks but believe me I have still so much to learn. 76th to reach 99 Construction on 6th of February 2007379th to reach 99 Runecrafting on 4th of November 2007 Finally the secrets of goal achieving are revealed! (give my guide a read :^_^: )
July 11, 200818 yr well. im going to a friends 18th party tomorrow night so she's happy i decided to come, now i thought what would be some good advice to not pick up but meet a girl without any of my issues dare getting in the way. i'll be 100% sober as i have to drive 2 peeps home afterwards (and i dont drink anyway : ) how should i go about approaching them? last thing i want is a friend of mine getting laid like no tomorrow being the [bleep] he is. : Popoto.~<3
July 11, 200818 yr Kay first I must stress no sex in the tent.He'll have to burn it then... Erm with self esteem I suggest doing things you're good at more.And for me I built up confidence by being in leadership positions in NCC,so take charge every now and then... For short term I would just suggest telling yourself "youda man,man" with a little Jamaican accent.That should make you giggle a little...Thats what I try to do when unnaturally nervous.Smile,relax.She's no going to eat you.She's not going to eat mini-you either... So relax.Girls usually don't judge.Don't worry mate,and you'll be fine. so i herd u liek devarts?If you look at me and feel offended by my 666-ism,think.I could be just as offended by your "cross".[hide=This's why I'm hot]The Eleventh Commandment:Thou Shalst only say "Amen,brother".Amen, brother :lol:Amen, brudda (referring to the 10th commandment)amen Bruder! (german ftw)I'm invulnerable to everything, except Lenin and Dragoonson.That's impossible. I love people.[/hide]
July 11, 200818 yr hm, well my girlfriend dumped me a while ago, neither of us is to sore about it, we weren't that serious or anything. the problem is, we still talk, mostly on MSN, i'm getting a lot of mixed messages, like "xoxo" just as she logs off, but other times its just "get [bleep]ed ed". what the hell? :| advice? nudist hippy vegan elves who inexplicably wear leather.
July 11, 200818 yr Damn you dragoonson! I ordered a Darth Nihilus sig aswell :lol: Jackal she's trieing to get your attention. Maybe she still likes you?
July 11, 200818 yr If you didn't realise from your Star Wars thread he happens to be one of my favorite Sith Lords. By the way do you think Darth is short for DARk Lord of the SiTH? so i herd u liek devarts?If you look at me and feel offended by my 666-ism,think.I could be just as offended by your "cross".[hide=This's why I'm hot]The Eleventh Commandment:Thou Shalst only say "Amen,brother".Amen, brother :lol:Amen, brudda (referring to the 10th commandment)amen Bruder! (german ftw)I'm invulnerable to everything, except Lenin and Dragoonson.That's impossible. I love people.[/hide]
July 11, 200818 yr nice catch \ Darth Nihilus is awesome. He's my favorite enemy in KOTOR 2 :thumbsup:
July 11, 200818 yr Damn you dragoonson! I ordered a Darth Nihilus sig aswell :lol: Jackal she's trieing to get your attention. Maybe she still likes you? that much is obvious, but what the hell am i supposed to do? lol, i remember cleary that she dumped me, even though she knew perfectly well i'm not the type of person that would go out of my way to get back together with her. :? oh yeah, she's also making a point of telling me about how she's going out to the movies with an ex boyfriend. :roll: nudist hippy vegan elves who inexplicably wear leather.
July 11, 200818 yr She wants to make you jealous. If your not intrested anymore when she sais things like that say things like "Ok...?" And act towards her like your her friend, dont act like you want to know everything about her. she'll get the message.
July 11, 200818 yr Thats just too obvious isn't it?If she dumped you she's clearly having regrets about your awesome man [wagon].Erm sorry,you didn't want them to know about that?Well anyway just say some thing like "Since you're going out with ex boyfriends want to see movie X with me?" Hmm Windex seems to hit the nail harder than I did... so i herd u liek devarts?If you look at me and feel offended by my 666-ism,think.I could be just as offended by your "cross".[hide=This's why I'm hot]The Eleventh Commandment:Thou Shalst only say "Amen,brother".Amen, brother :lol:Amen, brudda (referring to the 10th commandment)amen Bruder! (german ftw)I'm invulnerable to everything, except Lenin and Dragoonson.That's impossible. I love people.[/hide]
July 11, 200818 yr Thats just too obvious isn't it?If she dumped you she's clearly having regrets about your awesome man [wagon].Erm sorry,you didn't want them to know about that?Well anyway just say some thing like "Since you're going out with ex boyfriends want to see movie X with me?" Hmm Windex seems to hit the nail harder than I did... Yea its happened to me before.
July 11, 200818 yr Hmm Windex go post Zeplo before I sleep kay?You have like 13 mintues... Idea:How 'bout Biorent and Luce have been travelling for a while?Beats me introducing you guys... so i herd u liek devarts?If you look at me and feel offended by my 666-ism,think.I could be just as offended by your "cross".[hide=This's why I'm hot]The Eleventh Commandment:Thou Shalst only say "Amen,brother".Amen, brother :lol:Amen, brudda (referring to the 10th commandment)amen Bruder! (german ftw)I'm invulnerable to everything, except Lenin and Dragoonson.That's impossible. I love people.[/hide]
July 11, 200818 yr oh, god, women are ridiculous. #-o i don't think its so much my awesome man arse, but my awesome long hair, goatee, and... yeah evermind. 8-) frustrating though, i'm to proud to try and get back together, she's probably to stubborn, ridiculous... :roll: nudist hippy vegan elves who inexplicably wear leather.
July 11, 200818 yr Cool a goatee!Oh if she's willing to take you back and change,how would that make you feel?I'm serious here it might help dispense advice. Like if she's willing to change for you,would you take her back and be patient for that change?Or do you think she's going to be the same as before?There's another one you want to consider... so i herd u liek devarts?If you look at me and feel offended by my 666-ism,think.I could be just as offended by your "cross".[hide=This's why I'm hot]The Eleventh Commandment:Thou Shalst only say "Amen,brother".Amen, brother :lol:Amen, brudda (referring to the 10th commandment)amen Bruder! (german ftw)I'm invulnerable to everything, except Lenin and Dragoonson.That's impossible. I love people.[/hide]
July 11, 200818 yr Its his job now to realize what he wants. Dragoonson, I posted on Zeplo. Sorry for the lack of imagination.
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