August 22, 201411 yr Just say yes, then tell her that your schedule is uncertain at the moment as you are moving back. “I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”“Do you have any regrets?”“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”“Mmmhmm.”
August 23, 201411 yr Erm... sorry to be the one to break it to you but chances are her feelings aren't genuine. It's probably just because you're in a different country, so it's safe for her to express emotions to someone because if you reject her there won't be any of that awkwardness.So yeah.... If i were you i'd tell her to go [bleep] herself. Cause chances are, the moment you tell her you're coming back her feeling will magically disappear. I got the same shit from girls in South Africa when i moved from SA to Qatar. I got the same shit from girls in Qatar when i moved back to SA for a year. I got the same shit again when i moved back to Qatar. And i got the same shit when i moved back from the US to Qatar. Girls who were just friends suddenly trip over their own feet to tell you how much they like you. Or you could be stupid and fall for it, then a few months from now you can post here about how i was right.
August 23, 201411 yr The thing is, she knew I'd be back in a week. So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc
August 23, 201411 yr The thing is, she knew I'd be back in a week.Doesn't matter. The fact still remains that you're not there right now. You'll see. You'll go out on a date with her, maybe two. She'll realise she didn't feel anything. She'll move on. You'll feel like shit.I don't know if you ever watched the episode of How i met your Mother where Ted was thinking about breaking up with Zoey, but then he got "breakup-goggles" which is similar to "beer-goggles".That's what she's having right now.
August 23, 201411 yr I dont want to side with Noxx on this, but his experience of country to country moving far surpasses my own Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
September 4, 201411 yr Meanwhile, on POF... Was using my standard copy and paste close to schedule a date w/ a girl and she was reluctant to meet up, so I had to overturn her objections. She seemed like she was just going to end up being a flake until she gave me her number. Who knows, we'll see. Scheduling dates this far away usually isn't a good idea but oh well. Me: Ok, you seem safe enough. :) We should meet up-- something simple like coffee or drinks. I'm going out of town tomorrow, though, so I'm not free until Tuesday or Wednesday evening after 7. If you're up for it, let me know if either of those work for you and I'll give you a time and a placeHer: Well your very forward and used to planning things I can see lol how do I know your not a serial killer ?Me: I AM a serial killer. Hope that's not a deal breaker. :) Haha I don't think I've ever heard of a serial killer going on a rampage at Starbucks though.Her: Hahhaha ya never know there's always a first for everything all that caffeine you never know what could happen hahahha ....ummm what kind of serial killer are u cuz that could be a deal breaker ?Me: Haha I didn't know there were different "species" of serial killers. Whichever the most attractive type of serial killer is-- I'm that one. :) Does Tuesday night at 8pm work for you?Her: Lol it does work for Me actually as long as I get off work on timeMe: Alright cool. There's a Starbucks at _____. Let's meet up there on Tuesday night at 8. My number's ______Her: Okay ...well my number is __________Me: Cool I'll shoot you a text later this weekHer: OkayWith the exception of one message I sent (because I knew she'd respond to it), notice how every message I send is either a call to action or asking a question. Otherwise, there's a good chance the conversation will suddenly die. :thumbup:
September 4, 201411 yr Did this stuff work for you while you were still in college/for girls still in college? I don't think I've met a girl my age (20ish) with an OKCupid or PlentyOfFish account, a lot of them talk about their tinders though
September 4, 201411 yr Dating sites seem to be semi regional Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
September 4, 201411 yr Her grammar killed my boner "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti
September 4, 201411 yr Meanwhile, on POF... Was using my standard copy and paste close to schedule a date w/ a girl and she was reluctant to meet up, so I had to overturn her objections. She seemed like she was just going to end up being a flake until she gave me her number. Who knows, we'll see. Scheduling dates this far away usually isn't a good idea but oh well. Me: Ok, you seem safe enough. :) We should meet up-- something simple like coffee or drinks. I'm going out of town tomorrow, though, so I'm not free until Tuesday or Wednesday evening after 7. If you're up for it, let me know if either of those work for you and I'll give you a time and a place Her: Well your very forward and used to planning things I can see lol how do I know your not a serial killer ? Me: I AM a serial killer. Hope that's not a deal breaker. :) Haha I don't think I've ever heard of a serial killer going on a rampage at Starbucks though. Her: Hahhaha ya never know there's always a first for everything all that caffeine you never know what could happen hahahha ....ummm what kind of serial killer are u cuz that could be a deal breaker ? Me: Haha I didn't know there were different "species" of serial killers. Whichever the most attractive type of serial killer is-- I'm that one. :) Does Tuesday night at 8pm work for you? Her: Lol it does work for Me actually as long as I get off work on time Me: Alright cool. There's a Starbucks at _____. Let's meet up there on Tuesday night at 8. My number's ______ Her: Okay ...well my number is __________ Me: Cool I'll shoot you a text later this week Her: Okay With the exception of one message I sent (because I knew she'd respond to it), notice how every message I send is either a call to action or asking a question. Otherwise, there's a good chance the conversation will suddenly die. :thumbup: Her grammar killed my boner This times....a lot
September 4, 201411 yr Grammar is one of those things that should be proper, even via texts, until you know someone fairly well. It just makes you sound either uneducated or lazy when you don't put in the effort, and it leaves a bad first impression. However, since Muggi is just out to slay some poon, it doesn't really matter that much I suppose.... “I had a feeling we weren’t coming back from this fight when it began.”“Do you have any regrets?”“I don’t. It seems surprising, I know, but I wouldn’t change a thing. This is how it was meant to be.”“Huh, you never really notice how lovely the day is until you realize you’ll never see it again.”“Mmmhmm.”
September 4, 201411 yr I didn't start using the dating sites until after I graduated, but I'm sure it would still work while in college. Most of the girls I date are still in college. As far as grammar goes, the vast majority of women don't use proper grammar (even the ones with advanced degrees). Hell, I think most people in general these days don't understand proper grammar. It's just how the world works.
September 4, 201411 yr Your and youre get autocorrected incorrectly pretty often, if that's the only transgression, I'm willing to look over it Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
September 5, 201411 yr I didn't start using the dating sites until after I graduated, but I'm sure it would still work while in college. Most of the girls I date are still in college. As far as grammar goes, the vast majority of women don't use proper grammar (even the ones with advanced degrees). Hell, I think most people in general these days don't understand proper grammar. It's just how the world works. I find it far more likely that people just don't care and don't even try. If they can get dates whilst using poor grammar, what motivation do they have to use good grammar? Squab unleashes Megiddo! Completed all quests and hard diaries. 75+ Skiller. (At one point.) 2000+ total. 99 Magic.[spoiler=The rest of my sig. You know you wanna see it.]my difinition of noob is i dont like u, either u are better then me or u are worst them meBuying spins make you a bad person...don't do it. It's like buying nukes for North Korea.Well if it bothers you that the game is more fun now, then you can go cry in a corner. :shame:your article was the equivalent of a circumcized porcupineThe only thing wrong with it is the lack of a percentage for when you need to stroke it. Poignant Purple to Lokie's Ravishing Red and Alg's Brilliant Blue.
September 17, 201411 yr I've made some mistakes in my life. I presume Muggiw's advice is; quit being an idiot and start doing more positive things. I just want to hear it from you guys. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn
September 17, 201411 yr As long as you're still alive you can always strive to make less mistakes and start making positive changes in your life.
September 17, 201411 yr As long as you're still alive you can always strive to make less mistakes and start making positive changes in your life.Yes, being dead sucks. "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is."
September 17, 201411 yr I've made some mistakes in my life. I presume Muggiw's advice is; quit being an idiot and start doing more positive things. I just want to hear it from you guys.This is the relationship thread. You forgot polyamory. http://forum.tip.it/topic/325514-bonez899s-journey-to-an-eventual-max/ My blog of progress on Runescape.
September 22, 201411 yr Apparently scheduled a date for next Wednesday. So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc
September 22, 201411 yr That was seriously unexpected, as I was just making small talk and I am drunk as [bleep] right now. So I've noticed this thread's regulars all follow similar trends. RPG is constantly dealing with psycho exes.Muggi reminds us of the joys of polygamy.Saq is totally oblivious to how much chicks dig him.I strike out every other week.Kalphite wages a war against the friend zone.Randox pretty much stays rational.Etc, etc
September 29, 201411 yr Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train) and well, she's my first girlfriend. Basically, any advice and how do I tell my parents (i'm 16 btw)?
September 29, 201411 yr Long story short, I had a crush on this girl, took my chances and asked her out. she actually said yes. However, we don't live exactly close to each other (~4 hours by train) and well, she's my first girlfriend. Basically, any advice and how do I tell my parents (i'm 16 btw)?Well what'd you tell your parents when you went to see her the first time?
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