What he's trying to say is that all the women in your class are actually men.

 

You know what sucks? Mental images.

 

I don't get it. Someone explain it to me.

 

I think he means imagining all those girls he would take an interest in with a penis.

 

Ah. Thanks for explaining it.

What he's trying to say is that all the women in your class are actually men.

 

You know what sucks? Mental images.

 

I don't get it. Someone explain it to me.

 

I think he means imagining all those girls he would take an interest in with a penis.

 

Ah. Thanks for explaining it.

 

 

 

All I read at quick glance was

 

"What he's trying to say...

 

...what sucks?...

 

...with a penis.

 

#-o

 

 

 

I should stop skimming.

I don't see why everyone says personality is first, if the girl doesn't have the "look" your after, you most likely won't even notice her, or the fact of her personality. so for me its:

 

1.Look

 

2.Personality

 

3.Athletic

 

4.Smart

I don't see why everyone says personality is first, if the girl doesn't have the "look" your after, you most likely won't even notice her, or the fact of her personality. so for me its:

 

1.Look

 

2.Personality

 

3.Athletic

 

4.Smart

 

 

 

Not trying to be rude, but why put looks above personality? I mean, there could be this very attractive person, but because you went for looks first you realize they have [cabbage] for personality.

 

 

 

Thats kinda my perspective on it. But everyone is different, eh? The fun of being a human :thumbsup:

 

Imputs and arguments, we'd be bored [cabbage]less without it.

I don't see why everyone says personality is first, if the girl doesn't have the "look" your after, you most likely won't even notice her, or the fact of her personality. so for me its:

 

1.Look

 

2.Personality

 

3.Athletic

 

4.Smart

 

 

 

Not trying to be rude, but why put looks above personality? I mean, there could be this very attractive person, but because you went for looks first you realize they have [cabbage] for personality.

 

 

 

Thats kinda my perspective on it. But everyone is different, eh? The fun of being a human :thumbsup:

 

Imputs and arguments, we'd be bored [cabbage] without it.

 

 

 

It is fun to argue :)

 

What im trying to say is that FOR ME the girl has to have the "look" for me to go up and talk to her, and see if she has a kick-[wagon] personality. Therefore Look>Personality

I don't see why everyone says personality is first, if the girl doesn't have the "look" your after, you most likely won't even notice her, or the fact of her personality. so for me its:

 

1.Look

 

2.Personality

 

3.Athletic

 

4.Smart

 

 

 

Not trying to be rude, but why put looks above personality? I mean, there could be this very attractive person, but because you went for looks first you realize they have [cabbage] for personality.

 

 

 

Thats kinda my perspective on it. But everyone is different, eh? The fun of being a human :thumbsup:

 

Imputs and arguments, we'd be bored [cabbage] without it.

 

 

 

It is fun to argue :)

 

What im trying to say is that FOR ME the girl has to have the "look" for me to go up and talk to her, and see if she has a kick-[wagon] personality. Therefore Look>Personality

 

 

 

 

 

Ah, no I understand what you mean. I get it now. I guess I'm kinda the same way except Im really not picky with looks. (theres like 60ish girls in my senior class at the current, and I think about 40-45ish are cute)

1. Decent looks (lets face it, that is how you first notice someone).

 

2. Reserved, yet confident.

 

3. Easy to talk to/joke with.

 

4. Smart/ambitious.

 

5. Sporty.

 

6. Not into fancy clothing.

I don't see why everyone says personality is first, if the girl doesn't have the "look" your after, you most likely won't even notice her, or the fact of her personality. so for me its:

 

1.Look

 

2.Personality

 

3.Athletic

 

4.Smart

 

 

 

Not trying to be rude, but why put looks above personality? I mean, there could be this very attractive person, but because you went for looks first you realize they have [cabbage] for personality.

 

 

 

Thats kinda my perspective on it. But everyone is different, eh? The fun of being a human :thumbsup:

 

Imputs and arguments, we'd be bored [cabbage] without it.

 

 

 

Because someone can have all the qualities you like in a partner, but if you aren't physically attracted to them, the relationship is going to tank pretty soon. At least that's what has been my experience.

I like a girl thats easy to talk to, dosnt get mad when I cant call (current..).. Has silky hair, as long as it isnt red Idc what color, Bright eyes, bright teeth, nice smile, and fun to be around. and freckles are good too (not too many and not real dark are perfect :shock: )

 

 

 

My current gf is all of these and more except she gets alittle pissy when I cant call..

They have to be able to take a joke and can't be too fragile. Or if they are fragile, then they should be quick to own up to it, not go and hurt themselves then blame you.

 

 

 

Also, intelligent is good.

 

 

 

Oh, and physically, i prefer:

 

Thin (bite me).

 

Relatively small breasts (I cannot stand the "bongo boobs" that so many men are obsessed with).

 

Hair color can be anything but bottle blonde.

 

Oh and I prefer them to be humanoid at the very least.

 

Relatively small breasts (I cannot stand the "bongo boobs" that so many men are obsessed with).

 

 

They look younger. Bigger breasts sag more conspicuously as they get older, and allow males to easily see if a female is fit for reproduction. [/Dwight K. Shrute]

Not trying to be rude, but why put looks above personality? I mean, there could be this very attractive person, but because you went for looks first you realize they have [cabbage] for personality.

 

Because asking a girl out doesn't mean you have to marry her.

 

 

 

And by the way, I've found more good-looking people to lead more interesting lives. Look at Bear Grylls, James Dean, Natalie Portman ... Would you say they have bad personalities? I would say I don't know, because I DON'T KNOW THEM PERSONALLY HAHA GOT YOU. But seriously, good-looking people are more easily accepted and thus can be swept up into more exciting things more easily.

 

 

 

And if you bring up a high school example, that's because there will be three people in any given high school with an actual personality. And it isn't the person that everyone hates and hates everyone because they aren't accepted. It's the person most people will agree are a cool dude, although some people will feel threatened by him.

 

 

 

BECAUSE [bleep] YOU, HIGH SCHOOL. MORE LIKE HIGH S-NOT SO-COOL

And if you bring up a high school example, that's because there will be three people in any given high school with an actual personality.

 

I don't think I've ever disagreed with you. You're doing your best for it though :-s

High school students just follow what their friends do, or what they think is cool. I'm just as guilty of it as the next guy, but I'm trying my damnedest to be one of those three kids that everybody secretly aspires to be. Because you know who they end up being?

 

 

So hard.

 

 

 

But, yeah. It wears off quick in college. Me and my brother were having a deep conversation about it. It started with all those kids who drank and smoked weed all the time, and how they were considered "cool" in high school, but in college, if you smoke weed occasionally, you're just a normal guy, and if you drink, hell, everyone does.

 

 

 

Not really sure about the "real world". But, hey, I won't be affected by it for a while, so I'll stick to my high-school high-horse.

I don't usually think about having relationships with a woman until I've known her for a while, so looks aren't a big factor. They help, but I just think it's a bit rich coming from me.

 

 

 

1. Personality.

 

2. Smart/Intelligent. I mean in between 'Dumb Blonde' and 'Antisocial nerd' (yes, I know stereotypes are stupid).

 

3. Fashion Sense. I mean the way they dress, not the amount of make-up they put on. Presenting yourself well gets you very far in my books.

 

4. Interesting. Being superficial gets you nowhere.

I was hoping to see a female opinion :/

 

If I can look at her without vomiting and she doesn't hate me before she knows me, she's good enough for me :thumbup: That's not as common as you think >.>

High school students just follow what their friends do, or what they think is cool.

 

Oh, k, I didn't read it that way.

 

 

 

abc, you have to stop thinking of yourself as scum. It might be a bit tough to say YOU'RE THE BEST, YOU EMBODY ROCK N ROLL, but honestly, if you're the guy no one ever looks at, then no one ever looks at you, their opinions are pretty much a blank slate.

I was hoping to see a female opinion :/

 

If I can look at her without vomiting and she doesn't hate me before she knows me, she's good enough for me :thumbup: That's not as common as you think >.>

 

 

 

I'm a girl who dates other girls so what can I help you with?

I've never grasped which male rears will be attractive to a woman. Ever, I can't figure it out. Even went on rating sites.

Blond or brunette, just don't like redheads for some reason. :l

 

Not too tall, not too short. Around my height is good. A little bit shorter is better.

 

Body doesn't concern me as long as she's not fat. Unless she's wearing shorts. :oops:

 

EYES. Most important part. I like this color:

 

[hide=Yes, this one. Right here.][/hide]

 

Teal is my favorite color. If a girl has those eyes, I'm in love. As long as she's not a [developmentally delayed]ed [bleep].

 

She has to have a sense of humor (very important) and be a generally happy person. She also has to be understanding and compassionate.

 

 

 

(In case you haven't realized it, I'm describing someone )

- Dark hair. No idea why really, but I've only had one blond partner and one redhead. The rest all had (very close to) black hair, except for one girl that dyed hers. Black.

 

- Glasses. I don't think it's the whole 'glasses make you look smarter' idea, more that glasses highlight the eyes. Nothing like a nice pair of eyes behind glasses.

 

- Large girls. Not fat, large. One of the most attractive girls I know is about 6'2" and built like a brick wall. There's really nothing quite like a girl who can take a bar stool to the back and keep swinging.

 

- A girl I can eat and drink with. I'm pretty much an all-out hedonist, and I'd like my girlfriend to be able to share in these 'passions'.

 

- A good head on her shoulders, obviously.

- Dark hair. No idea why really, but I've only had one blond partner and one redhead. The rest all had (very close to) black hair, except for one girl that dyed hers. Black.

 

 

 

 

Dyed black hair looks so gross.

- Dark hair. No idea why really, but I've only had one blond partner and one redhead. The rest all had (very close to) black hair, except for one girl that dyed hers. Black.

 

 

 

 

Dyed black hair looks so gross.

 

 

 

I agree. But real black hair looks very nice :thumbup:

 

 

 

I agree with Necromagus though, I prefer dark haired women - the majority of women with red hair I don't find attractive, and likewise with blond (although some exceptions for each).

Hmm. My perfect guy...

 

 

 

Tall, nice body, not obscenely muscly, but toned and healthy looking. Tanned, long-ish floppy hair, twinkly eyes, nice smile. No matter what their personality was like I'd like them to look attractive and vice versa. And I don't know why, but.. nice jawbones.

 

And with their personality... friendly, good social skills, tactful, optimistic, but also really strong, knows what they believe in, holds strong principles, intelligent. Likes both sport and arty things, is led by their instinct but isn't stupid, and takes all responsibility for their own actions. Has a great sense of fun. And isn't really hot and cold, that pisses me off.

 

 

 

*sigh*

Hmm. My perfect guy...

 

 

 

Tall, nice body, not obscenely muscly, but toned and healthy looking. Tanned, long-ish floppy hair, twinkly eyes, nice smile. No matter what their personality was like I'd like them to look attractive and vice versa. And I don't know why, but.. nice jawbones.

 

And with their personality... friendly, good social skills, tactful, optimistic, but also really strong, knows what they believe in, holds strong principles, intelligent. Likes both sport and arty things, is led by their instinct but isn't stupid, and takes all responsibility for their own actions. Has a great sense of fun. And isn't really hot and cold, that pisses me off.

 

 

 

*sigh*

 

Sounded like you were describing me. :shock: