Giordano Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 What's wrong with drinking? Sheesh...Getting publicly drunk at 15 is really irresponsible. "The cry of the poor is not always just, but if you never hear it you'll never know what justice is." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tripsis Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Drunk at that age alone makes me raise an eyebrow. Publicly drunk at that age is just trashy. - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omar Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 She wasn't alone. I do agree it shouldn't be completely in public though. Matt: You want that eh? You want everything good for you. You want everything that's--falls off garbage can Camera guy: Whoa, haha, are you okay dude? Matt: You want anything funny that happens, don't you? Camera guy: still laughing Matt: You want the funny shit that happens here and there, you think it comes out of your [bleep]ing [wagon] pushes garbage can down, don't you? You think it's funny? It comes out of here! running towards Camera guy Camera guy: runs away still laughing Matt: You think the funny comes out of your mother[bleep]ing creativity? Comes out of Satan, mother[bleep]er! nn--ngh! pushes Camera guy down Camera guy: Hoooholy [bleep]! Matt: FUNNY ISN'T REAL! FUNNY ISN'T REAL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tripsis Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 She wasn't alone. I do agree it shouldn't be completely in public though.I didn't mean alone without other people, I meant solely the fact that it's at the age of 15. - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Range_This11 Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 To each his own. I drank when I was 15. I did not do it often as I am sure is the case with her. "He could climb to it, if he climbed alone, and once there he could suck on the pap of life, gulp down the incomparable milk of wonder." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Warrior Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 Why does the fact she's 15 make any difference at all? In fact, come to think of it, why is this even being discussed? It's none of our business whether she goes out and gets drunk because her exams are over. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 I told you, i'm making it your business. 2257AD.TUMBLR.COM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tripsis Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Anyone who posts here about their relationship makes their life and the life of the other person our business :P - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Warrior Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 No it doesn't. This thread doesn't exist to claim a moral highground. Once you leave a relationship with someone, you cease to hold the right to cast any kind of aspersions whatsoever about the way that other person lives their life. So she gets drunk at 15... underage drinking aside (which is a matter for her parents, not you) it's perfectly within her right to decide how she celebrates the end of her exams. It's been said before, and it clearly needs saying again: Just. Ignore. Her. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tripsis Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 It is within her right, but it's also within our rights to have opinions :P Though I'm fine with changing the topic at this point since we're clearly just talking in circles. - 99 fletching | 99 thieving | 99 construction | 99 herblore | 99 smithing | 99 woodcutting - - 99 runecrafting - 99 prayer - 125 combat - 95 farming - - Blog - DeviantART - Book Reviews & Blog Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Warrior Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 All I'm saying is I'm not prepared to use this thread as a means of being derisive towards someone we don't personally know, and someone who has no ability to defend themselves. The aim of advice-giving is not judgementalism. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obfuscator Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Agreed completely with ginger. "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarg1010 Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 All I'm saying is I'm not prepared to use this thread as a means of being derisive towards someone we don't personally know, and someone who has no ability to defend themselves. The aim of advice-giving is not judgementalism.We give advice based on the judgments we make based on the information we are given. It can't be helped, otherwise we probably wouldn't be giving advice. Sam told us she drinks, so we give advice on what to do based on our judgments we've made on that fact. Unfinished netherrack symbol of Khorne. Never forget. ~creeper face w/single tear~ DO YOU HEAR THE VOICES TOO?!?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Surprise Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 So, if anyone here remember the issue I was having, I'm basically just going to stop talking to the girl for about a week, unless she contacts me first (Which is reasonably unlikely). Not for the sake of getting over her, but I realized our conversation mostly consists of fairly short answers from her with me trying to keep things afloat (her saying the occasional thing randomly to create discussion, so I don't think she's hinting I'm annoying her), and I feel like it's destroying the friendship aspect of it. It's going to be hard not talking to her, but I'll try my best, and hopefully within a week she'll either have contacted me. If not, then I'll start a discussion up, and see if it gets anywhere at all. Thanks for the previous advice, that I should have followed earlier. It probably would have saved a lot of pain if I took it then rather than coming to a different realization now. Giving her space for a week is probably the best thing you can do currently. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sam Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 I don't know why I still care. 2257AD.TUMBLR.COM Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
obfuscator Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 I don't know why I still care.Because she's your first girlfriend and you lost your virginity to her... Which is why high school kids shouldn't have sex, but that's a whole other can of worms. At any rate, the only thing to do is just try to get over her and with enough time you eventually will. "It's not a rest for me, it's a rest for the weights." - Dom Mazzetti Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Range_This11 Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Sex does funny things to a person's mind. It is natural that you still care, it has only been a couple weeks or so. It will fade if you let it. These things take time. "He could climb to it, if he climbed alone, and once there he could suck on the pap of life, gulp down the incomparable milk of wonder." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RpgGamer Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Sex does funny things to a person's mind. It is natural that you still care, it has only been a couple weeks or so. It will fade if you let it. These things take time. I disagree. I am in full belief that Sam will always care for Ellen. Their relationship was special, and meant alot to Sam, if not to Ellen as well. It's a shame that she's an immature girl, but as time goes on one can hope that she'll grow out of it one day. Until that day comes, most of her behavior will be seen in the eyes of Sam will be an atrocity, and a sin against nature itself. You think seeing her drunk in public sucks? Just wait til she starts hooking up with other guys... Sam, I'll be frank. You'll always in the back of your heart have some sort of emotional tie to her on some level. You'll probably never stop caring entirely. But what you can do, is do yourself a favor. Stop caring that you care about her. Realize that she is her own being entitled to making her own decisions, however disgusting they may be in your eyes. Stop thinking about life as your life with her in it, and start thinking about the World's interactions, with you in it. Get away from her. She's causing you distress, and will continue to do so until you truly stop caring about your feelings for her. Maybe one day when she grows up, and the stars align, you two will meet again and have an entirely different interactive encounter. But for now, you're still a strung-out, post-break up teen male, and she's just an immature girl. Seriously. Stay away from her. Throw a brick wall between you two. No communication, no news, no news feed, no texts, nothing. And if she's trying to start with you....give her a reason to stop. Quote Quote Anyone who likes tacos is incapable of logic. Anyone who likes logic is incapable of tacos. PSA: SaqPrets is an Estonian Dude Steam: NippleBeardTM Origin: Brand_New_iPwn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bows Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Very well said, Daniel. I couldn't have said it better myself. As I posted in the regrets thread, I'm having second thoughts about my current relationship. It's been about a month and a half, we've had sex, she's cute and sexy, and I dig her. I can't pit my finger on what it is, but lately (these past few days) I've just been thinking a lot about breaking up with her. Opinions, comments, questions? I could use some help here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zygimantas Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 Very well said, Daniel. I couldn't have said it better myself. As I posted in the regrets thread, I'm having second thoughts about my current relationship. It's been about a month and a half, we've had sex, she's cute and sexy, and I dig her. I can't pit my finger on what it is, but lately (these past few days) I've just been thinking a lot about breaking up with her. Opinions, comments, questions? I could use some help here.hmm... do you think you deserve better or something? 99 Hunter - November 1st, 200899 Cooking -July 22nd, 200999 Firemaking - July 29th, 201099 Fletching - December 30th, 2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bows Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 That could be it. While in Disneyland I got a lot of cute/sexy girls eyeing me and I found myself wishing I was single while there. She treats me well, and I'm the kind of guarded guy so I'm an ass a lot. But she puts up with all of my [cabbage], and it worries me that if I break up with her I won't be able to find another girl who can deal with me for long enough for me to let my guard down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Range_This11 Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 RPG, I see what you are saying. Christ, it has been over four years since I had a relationship end in nearly the exact same way as Sam is describing his, and I obviously have not forgotten about that girl. I do not know if I can qualify my feelings as "caring" for her. Sure, there are still feelings there but I have not talked to her or seen her in at least two years so I am not really sure how anyone can "care" for someone in that situation. My point is that yes, there will be feelings for that person, but the difficult ones will fade with time. The best thing is to learn as much as you can about yourself from a failed relationship and move the eff on with your life. Every time you get some of those feelings back for an ex, put them out of your mind as quickly as you can or they will lead to dwelling and personal anguish. Bows-- It sounds like you two have a good physical connection. How are things beyond that? Try taking a break from the physical aspects and see if you still enjoy being with her. "He could climb to it, if he climbed alone, and once there he could suck on the pap of life, gulp down the incomparable milk of wonder." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginger_Warrior Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 You don't stop caring for each other once a relationship is over. That's perfectly natural. I've often believed that what seperates teenagers from grown adults is the ability to do something we don't really feel like doing, but doing it anyway because it's the best thing to do. People say taking more responsbility in the house is a sign of growing up; nobody ever wanted to clean dishes, or spend money on food other people are going to eat, but we do it anyway. People say getting a job is a sign of growing up; nobody wants to waste eight hours of the day in a stuffy office making phone calls to people we'll never meet in our entire lives, but we do it anyway. People say graduating from university is a sign of growing up; nobody likes doing an all-nighter the evening before the final exam hopelessly trying to cram information, but we do it anyway. Nobody likes admitting that a relationship is never going to return back to golden days, but people have to do it anyway, because more often than not, neither side really knows how to deal properly with seperating from somebody else. For what it's worth, my last relationship ended four years ago. I've been with other girls since, on nights out mostly, but nothing serious (I haven't exactly been trying, granted). But I still have feelings for my ex. She's in a new relationship, even so she's told me she feels and cares about me still. We've both accepted however that it didn't work the first time round, and nothing's changed to suggest it would work the second time of asking. We can still care for each other in a Platonic way, on the condition it doesn't go further than that. I'd point out however that we didn't talk to each other (as in, nothing except very brief, often venomous eye contact) for a good two years before we figured that out. That's what you need to prepare for. | Favourite Game Music | Last.fm | HYT Friend Chat Rules | Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zygimantas Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 That could be it. While in Disneyland I got a lot of cute/sexy girls eyeing me and I found myself wishing I was single while there. She treats me well, and I'm the kind of guarded guy so I'm an ass a lot. But she puts up with all of my [cabbage], and it worries me that if I break up with her I won't be able to find another girl who can deal with me for long enough for me to let my guard down.Your personality sounds like my girlfriend's :lol: And I agree with Range, try to see if you have a connection beyond just physically. 99 Hunter - November 1st, 200899 Cooking -July 22nd, 200999 Firemaking - July 29th, 201099 Fletching - December 30th, 2010 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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