no i won't. no matter, someone who loves me wouldn't go as far as lieing or decieving me in a moment before marriage.

At that point I'd probly have aids anyway. So why let one little thing get in the way of the love of my life?

 

i'd still marry her.

 

and then never use a condom again, cause there'd really be no point after that.

A condom can split y'no

It's also possible to win the lottery. Doesn't mean it happens often.

 

And to everyone saying that they basically leave them at the altar, I don't believe that for a second. If you're marrying them, you've obviously spent (most likely) a few years with them and you're ready to spend the rest of your life together. I don't doubt that you would be mad, but I don't think you would be this cruel to someone you completely and totally love.

I agree to a certain extent, I don't think it would be as simple as just leaving the person I was about to marry. To marry someone I would have to feel as though I didn't want to live for a moment without them anyway, and would be happy to live a shortened life with them than a full life without them. But then again having that forced on you by someone you love wouldn't exactly be comforting, not to mention the amount of trust issues that it would cause.

 

So really, I have no idea what I would do, lol, but I know it wouldn't be as simple as just leaving them.

The moral of this story;

 

Use condoms.

Ribbed condoms. ;-)

 

For her pleasure.

 

Would I marry them ?

 

[bleep] no.

 

I'd scrub every square millimeter of my capillaries, veins and arteries with [bleep]ing AJAX.

A condom can split y'no

It's also possible to win the lottery. Doesn't mean it happens often.

 

And to everyone saying that they basically leave them at the altar, I don't believe that for a second. If you're marrying them, you've obviously spent (most likely) a few years with them and you're ready to spend the rest of your life together. I don't doubt that you would be mad, but I don't think you would be this cruel to someone you completely and totally love.

 

Bullcrap.

I would have no problem what so ever leaving the idiot at the altar and run straight to the doctor. Ffs.

The moral of this story;

 

Use condoms.

Ribbed condoms. ;-)

I have no clue what I'd do in a situation like that, probably go get a blood test before anything, I doubt any person I was going to marry would wait that long before telling me something like that.

 

lol

This depends. Did we already sleep together?

Did she tell me or did I find out?

 

It's not like I expect to be the first guy shes slept with, and I should hope shes not expecting that of me either.

 

Now, I don't know if I could sleep with her after that, and if I did, it would be in a way I probably wouldn't have kids. I wan't kids. This is a situation I don't know how I would react untill it happens (if it dose). That, or if you can convince me I want to hypnotised, we could probably get the answer much sooner if at all. Good luck though, I don't trust myself not to do something really stupid while hypnotised (especialy seeing as the next show is rated XXX), so I don't think theres anyway I could make myself willing.

I would hope to be as understanding and supportive as possible but I could never trust them again, I couldn't marry them and I doubt I could love them.

 

If you've already slept together without being told, well that would just be one of the most selfish things he/she could do.

A condom can split y'no

It's also possible to win the lottery. Doesn't mean it happens often.

 

And to everyone saying that they basically leave them at the altar, I don't believe that for a second. If you're marrying them, you've obviously spent (most likely) a few years with them and you're ready to spend the rest of your life together. I don't doubt that you would be mad, but I don't think you would be this cruel to someone you completely and totally love.

 

I wouldn't have a second thought about it. They've lied to me for all this time, and they just essentially killed me. I'd have that marriage annuled and have them removed from my life after legal action.

And to everyone saying that they basically leave them at the altar, I don't believe that for a second. If you're marrying them, you've obviously spent (most likely) a few years with them and you're ready to spend the rest of your life together. I don't doubt that you would be mad, but I don't think you would be this cruel to someone you completely and totally love.

 

Trust is vital in a relationship. If the foundation of the relationship collapsed under my feet, I'm gonna fall. The entire relationship would change, so my feelings for her would too. I've found out that she was hiding something important from me. What else could she be hiding? I don't want a wife who keeps secrets like that from me.

 

Perhaps we would be able to work things out in the future, but at that moment I would not want to marry her until she proved herself trustworthy again.

Waiting for someone who has HIV to say:

 

"Sure, considering I already have it. Oh, you all are all [wagon]."

No idea really.

I would probably tell her to just leave me be for awhile, then see..

I'd probably punch her in the face. Twice. Once for trying to kill me, and the second time for not being honest in a relationship.

Yes, I know AIDS isn't that deadly anymore, but it's not curable either.

"And this is why your still a Virgin" (Comic Reference)

 

As most said, Lied to me, put my body, health and life at risk. Far worse then having them turn around and going "Oh, I had sex with your friend on our anniversary because you forgot it."

It doesn't matter about what is wrong with her/him, it just matters about how much you care about them, nothing should break a relationship unless it is just not working out or you have stopped carring about them.

There fore my answer is yes, i would marry her

I'm guessing this wouldn't be a one night stand situation, so I would ask her to get tested before she had sex with me.

 

That way she wouldn't lie and I would still potentially marry the person. If I ever wanted kids, there's always adoption.

Waiting for someone who has HIV to say:

 

"Sure, considering I already have it. Oh, you all are all [wagon]."

Hahaha, that's the first thing I thought after reading the first page. :lol:

No. I'd sue them for man slaughter as I'm pretty sure that knowing you are HIV positive and transmitting it to someone is illegal and classified under that category.

 

On the other hand I'm already screwed so why not..

She lied to me, a person that I love so dearly and suddenly tells me the biggest thing that matters when concerning my safety.

Even if I'm already screwed, I don't want to wake up next to the person that ruined a big factor of my life(sex with other people ect...).

No, not after they lied like that... and it wasn't a "little white lie" - "I don't like your hair." - it puts you as serious risk of contracting a disease that they knew they had.

how the hell does someone say yes? Lol

Wow, it would suck to have AIDS. You're going to die and you'll never find love :|

Wow, it would suck to have AIDS. You're going to die and you'll never find love :|

 

You could find someone else with AIDs. That would be romantic.

Wow, it would suck to have AIDS. You're going to die and you'll never find love :|

 

You could find someone else with AIDs. That would be romantic.

 

Wow.... thats a buisness prospect.

Wow, it would suck to have AIDS. You're going to die and you'll never find love :|

 

It'll take a while to kill you still, but still. Actually not announcing you're HIV-positive before having sex and passing it on can be considered manslaughter in some jurisdictions.

Wow, it would suck to have AIDS. You're going to die and you'll never find love :|

 

You could find someone else with AIDs. That would be romantic.

She/he's standing right in front of you wearing a white dress/tux. :wink: